Well, me and my boyfriend have a beautiful baby girl that is 4 1/2 months old. I am 14 and he is 15. We haven't been getting along with his mom lately and I am not sure why she is mad at us. There is a lot more to the story but I will go on with my question. She called us on Monday and said that they were having Thanksgiving on Wednesday (today) because they knew my family had it on Thursday. Well, she wanted us to go. I am still not sure if I feel comfortable going or not. I am debating on whether to just let my boyfriend take our daughter or if I should go to. I have people telling me to go and other people saying its not worth it. I just need some opinions. Also, he wants to go so he is going. And his family rarely gets to see our daughter and I would hate to punish his family because of his mom but I don't think I am ready to face her yet.
2007-11-21 03:38:07 · 17 answers · asked by נєѕѕι¢α (ανα'ѕ мσмму) 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
BoSox- When have I asked a question where she was a different age? I never have!
2007-11-21 03:51:12 · update #1
BoSox- Since you are so smart and know about my whole life. Tell me a question where I have supposedly changed the sex of my baby! And babies get older I don't change her age!
2007-11-21 03:56:20 · update #2
BoSox- I have never said my daughter was 6 months old!!! If you want to believe that then you go right on ahead.
2007-11-21 03:58:33 · update #3
BoSox- Also looking at your answers you stay strictly in the Parenting section and I have only asked questions in the parenting 2 maybe 3 times. Once was about my aunt being a bad mother for leaving HER 6 month old and 17 month old inside alone. Also have you ever heard of anyone else named Jessica? Obviously not.
2007-11-21 04:03:39 · update #4
Ignore BoSox yea, wow, don't you love stalkers.
I know you don't lie, and that's all that matters cuz your business is my business right?! Haha.
Well. I would say you go, I guess. It was nice of her to change her plans for Thanksgiving just because she knows that you have it Thursday. I think that shows that she does in fact want you to go and bring Ava with you.
You never know, she might be changing her opinions and she might start to act nicer.
You should go, yes, but just make sure Cody knows that if your mom starts bitching then you can leave and take Ava with you. You can tell him that you feel uncomfortable, I don't think he'd get mad at you for it.
Maybe it's bout time she makes nice, hehe
=)
2007-11-21 04:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by ανєяу'ѕ мσмму 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if perhaps she feels bad about the way she's treated you and is trying to make peace? After all, she's specifically tried to have the meal on a day that it won't clash with your family do, so that you can attend. It's hard to say without knowing what else has been happening, but... if you and your boyfriend's mother can patch up your differences and manage to get along, life will just be so much nicer for all concerned, including your daughter, that I think this has got to be worth trying. I wouldn't turn down an invitation that might well be a genuine attempt from her to make things up with you. Go along even if you feel awkward, and try to see things from her point of view. I do hope it works out.
2007-11-21 03:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah V 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound very mature for a 14 yr. old.
Without knowing the whole story, I have to say go only because she called you to invite you to her home and is making an effort for you to celebrate the holiday with both sides of your daughter's family.
How will you get there? If you can, plan ahead with your BF that if things get too much for you, you can leave by yourself and meet up with him and the baby later. If you can't do that, plan to have a time that you "have" to leave so that you can know that the night will come to an end.
Good Luck and have a Happy Thanksgiving.
2007-11-21 03:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by mommymj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a good plan. that is good of you to send the baby with your bf to see the family. without the whole story, it is hard for me to say what i would do. but if you feel you are being treated badly and don't want to be around his mom then just don't go. and another time i would try to sit down with this woman and talk with her about the way she has been treating you and how it makes you feel.
2007-11-21 03:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 15:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of you go. You are a family and you need to go too. Plus if you act nice as pie then the ball is in their court to be nice, and if they are rude then you dont have a guilty conscious on what you did wrong to make them mad. Go you shouldnt feel excluded you three are a family. Good luck
2007-11-21 03:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go, because by not going not only are you not solving the bigger problem, but you are adding fuel to the fire. There will be other people there so try to make the best of it...I mean don't you want to spend your babies 1st thanksgiving by its side?
2007-11-21 03:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by hellnocutco 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go, but let your boyfriend know as soon as his mom start tripping you are ready to go. Pay her no attention and just remember you will have a enjoyable Thanksgiving tomorrow.
2007-11-21 03:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Kasey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and go, it's part of being in a committed relationship with somebody that you have to put up with his family. Generally people tend to be on their good behavior during holidays. His mother also went out of her way to schedule Thanksgiving meal so that it wouldn't conflict with you family's, she must want you there.
2007-11-21 03:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda I 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Go and be the bigger person. If you can hold your own, she will learn to respect you. Be strong and don't let yourself fall apart. If she says something you don't like, keep your comments to yourself. In doing so, his entire family will have respect for you.
2007-11-21 03:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by its_victoria08 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋