I love her very much and I've never suspected for a second that she would ever cheat on me. She is still friends with her ex but she never wants us to meet (that's understandable) and she also doesn't want me to be around any of her friends (sometimes we can't hang out because she is with people I can't see). I told her that it bothers me that she talks about him all the time and she said that he is part of her life (they've known and dated each other for years and used to live together) and she doesn't feel that she should have to edit herself. I don't want to lose her but I don't know how much more I can take.
2007-11-21 03:23:21 · 11 answers · asked by leopold23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She absolutely should not be talking about her ex everyday. What is just as bad is why she has all these friends you can't meet and can't meet her ex who is her friend? why on earth is she keeping you hidden from all these people? Demand to be treated with some respect. NO more talking about ex in front of you unless it is extremely relevant to present day. NO more hanging out with ex (don't trust any guy she won't let you meet) AND you have to meet her friends if you are gonna stay with her.
don't put up with anymore crap.
2007-11-21 03:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're under the age of 40, chances are you've sent and received a lot of text messages over the past few years. Texting is the most popular form of communication between many couples, and it's definitely a very good means of re-establishing contact with your ex.
Why is sending a text message such a good way to start talking with your ex again? Well, for starters, it doesn't require you to have a full-blown conversation with your ex. You can send a text to your ex saying something simple, like "did you hear that Bob's Clothing Store is having a blowout sale this weekend?"... if your ex replies, there's really no need for you to text them back again. There's also no pressure on your ex to reply immediately (or at all) so it's very casual and non-threatening.
As I mentioned in the previous article about re-starting communication with your ex, you should start by having very brief and very casual conversations with your ex. The first few times you chat with him or her should just be a minute or two of small talk, nothing more. And what better a way to get yourself back on the top of your ex's mind than to send a simple text message?
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2014-09-12 04:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she would enjoy hearing you talk about your ex everyday. Sometimes we must fight fire with fire. But really it seems as if she is too self absorbed to care. She can't seem to put the shoe on the other foot. Being friends is one thing, but talking about him everyday is another. It's not that she must edit herself, it's that she must think of someone other than herself. She must consider your feelings or else this relationship is going no where. As much as you care for this women, could you see yourself constantly hurting her like this? I would think no, because you do love her and you do take her feelings into consideration. This is a sign of immaturity. She can't see past herself. Not to mention I think she has more feelings for this guy than she lets up. I don't talk about my girlfriends everyday to my husband as I know he don't care. So she is throwing him in your face, loving that you're jealous. Or why else would she be so willing to create the conflict? I think you have a valid arguement and I think that you shouldn't give into her childish motives. You're apart of her life as well, so does the ex hear about you as often?? I do think she still cares for him. And I hate to say it, but you're probably the rebound guy. So you probably were competeing against him since day one. Of course I can only assume these things according to what you have told us. But I would say that if she don't start considering your feelings in this relationship then it's time to find a good women who will. There are plenty of women out there who would give anything to find a good, sincere man. I wish you the best! Good Luck & God Bless!
2007-11-21 03:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by zerotimeforfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right that she does that and I don't think it's "normal" or healthy at all. How would she feel if you did that about one of your ex's? She doesn't need to edit her life but she has to have limits. It's fine to mention him once in a while but everyday is a little much. I don't care how good of friends they are. Is she the "it's my way or the highway" type of girl. If so you may not get far with getting her to change. She obviously doesn't see anything wrong with her actions. Try to talk with her again and if nothing changes maybe it's time to leave. Relationships are about respect and I think what she's doing it totally disrespectful.
2007-11-21 03:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a new relationship then, no she should not be talking about her ex everyday she should be focusing on building a relationship with you. if your relationship has been going on for awhile then you need to relax a little. sometimes you can be friends with your ex but that depends on why the relationship ended (problems that make them not compatible you should not worry), they are an ex for a reason. now why she is keeping you away from her friends.... well.... the only thing i can think of is that she acts different when she is around them and when she is with you. only when you are introduced to them will you both be able to get closer (take the next step).
2007-11-21 03:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by a.y. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having to talk about your ex, at various times, is saying that either she or he is not over that person, or better yet, seems to be trying to test the water, so she or he, can have the cake and ice cream, on the down low.
Time is precious, and for someone who has time to jack around, should just be left alone.
2016-03-20 19:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it: you marry her, and find yourself always in this triangle relationship... until the end of time.
2007-11-21 03:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Aoi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 cause of breakups.. one side talks about their ex- other side sees it as a comparison....
When she starts, tell her you would rather talk about " you and me"
2007-11-21 03:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl is being really ungrateful.
2007-11-21 03:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by Riya B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should nto be tlkin about him to u at all, cause it seems that if she does that she aint over him
2007-11-21 03:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋