he wakes up to come to my bed. last night we tried to take him back to his but he got up 500times we would even wait for him to go to sleep
what should we do?
2007-11-21 02:38:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tata 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Put a gate across his room. He shouldn't be able to climb it. Good luck.
2007-11-21 02:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you are doing, bring him right back to bed. Eventually he will give up trying. You will be very tired and frustrated at first, but it wont be long that you are enjoying sleeping through the night again.
2007-11-21 02:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, keep putting him back to his own bed. Maybe do a reward program with stars or something and when he gets so many stars he gets a prize. The prize thing works well with little ones..
2007-11-21 02:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Can't stand this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him why it's important for him to be a big boy and remain in his bed. And each time make him go back until he gets the picture.
2007-11-21 02:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by onenappsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really feel for you on this one my little girl came in with us everynight i tried putting her back and she would come through again, the good news is she started play school and since sept she has not come through once. so maybe try that i no some do take them at two so long as they are out of nappies good luck.
2007-11-22 01:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why should he stop when you reward him every time... tell him "Tonight you are going to sleep in your own room in your own bed..." and be firm about it...if he comes into your room once - tell him to leave - do NOT go with him back to his room - this is a reward.. as long as he gets ANY reward - no matter how small he will continue to do this..
tell him to leave - and get firmer and firmer in your voice.. even if you have to yell... GET OUT!!!!!
lock your door as a last resort.
it sounds mean.. I know but if you are "nice" about it then why will he stop?
and quit talking baby talk... I mean "da middle of da night" what is that about???
2007-11-21 03:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Need to break the habit otherwise it is going to affect yourselves.
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2007-11-24 17:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn grammar.
Second, you keep doing what you're doing. Pick him up and put him back 500 times without fail. Even if you're up all night doing it, pick him up, tell him its night time, put him in his bed. Repeat.
He will learn he's fine in there and he can put himself back to sleep on his own, just be consistent.
2007-11-21 02:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try putting a gate up at his door. he will preobably cry, but it is better than him getting in anod out of your bed all night.
2007-11-21 02:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would like to ask you some questions.
2007-11-21 02:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋