Hey Yall,
I met this dude at the store and got his number...he work there. He 34 and i am 24. We've been talkin for a week and he came over with his movies 2 days ago. He was drinkin some Henny about a cup and a half str8.
We was watchin Chuck and Larry and there was a part on there when a man said i am a size 10 and Adam Sandler said i like chubby men and then I rubbed my friend's tummy, but it was a joke and then he rubbed my ussy. I was SHOCKED! I couldn't believe that he did that. I told his azz off!!
He didn't say anything throught the whole movie and apologized when he left and all yesterday morning. He was so embarrased. I told him that i wanted him to drink so I can see the REAL SIDE of him and he said you set me up! I said you are a grown azz man and you set urself up!
I told him that I except his apology, but won't forget.
What do yall think I should do with him?
2007-11-21 02:24:09 · 33 answers · asked by twdy412 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for one thing when you rub a mans stomache thats means that you want to do it so you really shouldnt have rubbed his stomache in the first place. it doesnt matter is someone done it in a movie or not. it is good that you excepted his apology but you shouldnt have excluded him from your life. tell him i am not going to stop being your friend but if you do it again you will never see me again. and if he does it again kick him out of your house. and if he starts stalking you call the cops and get him arrested it is as simple as that
2007-11-21 02:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by ashfry101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were being misleading, first of all a first date at home while laying across the couch watching a movie, you have to know what message that sends out ( maybe not your 24) the two of you should have been at a more neutral place having drinks and yes he knows better cuz he's been around the block so he would have went farther if you'd allowed it. Age does matter, cuz if it didnt you wouldnt have told us the age difference. Follow your gut if your have a bad feeling about this guy
2007-11-21 02:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kiki from K-town 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are about 3 billion men on this planet. If this one doesn't suit you, maybe you should find another one that does. At least this guy apologized. Age matters some of the time, but there are guys that are much older than 34 that are still not "mature" - it depends on the guy. I hope you find the RIGHT guy - that's not easy to do, but I hope you do it!
2007-11-21 09:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He expressed his attraction to you in a way that was uncomfortable for you, and to you it was embarrassing and inappropriate.
Some guys think every woman automatically goes for that. Some women do, but your question also indicates that your interest has been aroused none the less, but you want him to slow it down.
Slow down jackson is the message he should have for awhile. It is a bad start, maybe he has potential for cleaning up his act. You accepted his apology, and I think you should give him a chance...provided he lays off of the sauce.
2007-11-21 02:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he owns Chuck and Larry shows that he's not the most sophisticated or intelligent guy around. He works in a store too, which means he doesn't make that much. Plus he started drinking and touched your p ussy on a first date!
He doesn't sound like much. You can do better.
2007-11-21 02:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he probably read ur tummy rub wrong since he was a little intoxicated
if he apoligized alot im sure he thought it was mutual when he did it
i mean he should have thought it through but at least he apoligized
i just think he thought the feeling was mutal so he went for it and being a little drunk influenced his desicion
he probably does like you though not just to get in ur pants
2007-11-21 02:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should work on your spelling and grammar.
Second you should stop playing games with men and alcohol before you get hurt.
You did set this guy up. You fed him alcohol and you initiated touching. Consider yourself lucky that this guy has a decent amount of self control.
Frankly, I think YOU should be embarassed by your behavior and what you have invited into your life.
This is not a question of age, 24 and 34 is perfectly reasonable. This is a question of adult behavior, and you, honey, haven't got what it takes.
2007-11-21 02:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
girl grow the phuck up!!!! he is a man and you were alone and he was drinkin'! of course he was gonna try to get some azz! stop playin games and jus ask him str8 up what he wants! don try 2 set him up....that is little girl sh*t! or maybe you should tell him exactly what you will and will not except out of the gate. he should leave your little azz alone for playin dumb games. to me he sounds like a good man b/c he did apologize, i think you should do the same to him.
2007-11-21 02:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by life guru 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You won't like this answer and I'm sorry but I think you need to grow up. You know this guy for a week, invite him over, he shows up drinking straight from a bottle and your shocked that after you rub his stomach he touches you back (private area). Now if you were 14 I could understand your surprise, but your an adult, act like one!
2007-11-21 02:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that maybe you might have gave him the wrong i dea which isnt a bad thing i think that him saying sorry is ok that you shouldnt stop talking to him just because of that mishap. I think that you should try it again and see what happens.
2007-11-21 02:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chick777 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋