so i just found out that i'm pregnant..and i told my boy friend the other day...now he has juse turned into a complete jerk and is always saying things to make me up set...like yesterday he was like i hope the baby doesnt look like u or i'll be pissed...iit seems like were arguing all the time...i really want him to be in the baby's life but i dont think i wanna talk to him until after the baby is here...hes just been stressing me out..what should i do...should i just tell him i'll call him when i'm nine months? will it be better for me to let him be invloved in my life...i mean there is not alot he can do for me but i really dont have anyone else.
2007-11-21 00:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If he is not acting like a real man and is just going to stress you out your whole pregnancy and make you miserable tell him to take a walk! Your child doesn't need that kind of role model anyways. There are plenty of other real men out there and you don't need any more stress while you are pregnant! Good Luck 80)
2007-11-21 01:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles_65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and that baby are priceless. And you should both be treated with respect and love. If he cant provide that, someone else can. You are not worthless just because you have a kid- plenty of good men are looking to raise families- even if the children arent their own.
I say let this guy know he can either pony up and act like a man, or you'll see him in court for child support. And then go find a decent man- theyre NOT where you look to find this guy you're with, theyre where real men hang out. Its not the street, and its not the clubs.
Have a sense of value for you, or atleast for your child.
2007-11-21 00:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a waste of space. That sort of behaviour is just as much abuse as if he hit you, and you don't have to put up with it. Kick him out, and tell him you'll be in touch about Child Support. It'll do you and the baby no good at all to have that going on around you.
2007-11-21 02:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by who me? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him sometime to come around. My husband was down right mean to me for the first few months when I found out I was pregnant. He came around when we found out we were having our first baby boy. Everyone told me that he would be happy if it was a boy and they were right.
2007-11-21 02:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is not worth it, if he is not willing to stand beside you and help you though then why would you want someone like that. that is a horrible feeling im sure especially if you are pregnant, there is a man out there for you that is willing to take you and your child in. good luck to you
2007-11-21 01:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex with out a condom,thats what you should do but its too late now and you are irresponsible.STOP trying to blame the male as most females do.
2007-11-21 01:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by You lookin' at me? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
thats really your decision..if you think he will make you miserable, by all means, STAY AWAY!!
2007-11-21 00:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by MeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋