Its been two years since this girl and I ended it. We dated for several months(short time) and we were both very attracted to each other. She broke it off with me after a huge fight. She thought I had other girls at my house. I didnt. Hence, she accused me of being a player and I accused her of being a player as well. The fact is I still miss her. My body and mind still craves this woman while logic forces myself to stay away. When I see her out I just feel so uncomfortable. I've seen her kissing another man in the past and it hurt like major hell. I played it cool and got myself a girl too. She saw me with a woman or two as well--so im sure it hurt her too. I feel hate/love towards her. I've emailed her a few times asking her out. She just is ambiguous about it.
Anyway, last week I saw her at sports club and she was on a double date. I was with a potential date as well but nothing materialized. I'm dating another woman right now but its so hard to get over my ex. Any suggestion
2007-11-20 17:26:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she doesnt want you, well, she doesnt want you,
you're best off trying to get over her,
a good way would be to find a new girl and try and accomplish more with her than you did with the one you're trying to get back together with
2007-11-20 17:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people always want what they can't have. You need to look more logically at the situation, why would she accuse you of cheating in the first place? It's either:
A. She is insecure and never trusted you which stems from her own issues or past experiences
or
B. You actually did do something to make her suspicious. (but that means you really were messing around)
If the answer is A, then you shouldn't want somebody like that with you, mistrust can ultimately end a relationship and make it rocky as hell. If it was B, then that was on your part and I can see why you may feel bad, that's taking into account that you were in love with her.
To be honest, the whole situation just sounds immature anyways, I would just move on.
2007-11-20 17:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is what we can't have, that we want the most.
Just think back to why the two of you broke up. That should sober your thinking. There was no trust in the relationship. Do you want to have to be questioned and mistrusted all of the time. It sounds like she had a trust issue.
2007-11-20 17:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well....just try to catch her when she's not around a guy and tell her how u feel dont be scared show her ur a real man...tell her dat how this makes u feel..and if u broke it off tell her...that ur sorry wut u did was stupid...tell ur really,really sorry u just cant be without her...that ur jealous and dat ur the only woman that i cant take ma mind off of...ask her on a date and see how things go...and if it doesnt work out just be friends
2007-11-20 17:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥heartbroken♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend a year alone rediscovering yourself - do not date - get over her because all you're doing right now is hurting yourself and others.
2007-11-20 17:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by missiwant2Blvdtoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋