I have been dating this guy now for almost a year... when we first started dating last semester we spent alot of time together and it was great. Now here we are about 6 months later... into the current semester... he seems indifferent when i am around, when i say i love you or show affection he does not reciporocate. I asked him why that has been the case and i have really been noticing the distance with him latley. He says he thinks that we've been spending way too much time together and thats what the problem is and we have been driving each other nuts... he is not sure that time has been the issue... i just sense more trouble looming on the horizon. we don;t live together, he used to be very loving toward me and i am hurting now i love him and don't want to loose him... i am not sure as to what to do.... and i am hurting alot please help...
2007-11-20 17:07:01 · 8 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea u prob starting to smother him...back up and let him come to u...its hard BUT when he comes to u it feels GOOD!!!! remember that guys are different they can grow tired after a while so u have to keep things interesting...trust it works jus give him space do u....if he dont step up than move on n get another man who can treat ya better!!!!
2007-11-20 17:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by straburi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This's usually the case. Guys get hook up, they get mad at it. U tell them, u just become enermy, but sooner than later they rush themseves up plateau of their affair 'n ppl laugh 'n say 'I told u'. U see, there's no alternative 2 building relationship gradually. That way u become fond of and used 2 each other. With that break up is difficult. So 4 now, take it easy, that's all I can say 4 now.
2007-11-21 01:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Go out with your girlfriends and have a good night without him for a few days. Wait for him to call you. Seem less interested. He will come crawling back.
2007-11-21 01:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by *the dancing machine* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but he may be preparing you for a split up. Obviously, he does not have the same feelings for you. Why don't you take the lead and find someone else that will give you the love and affection that you deserve, and drop your bf's butt first.
2007-11-21 01:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to spend too much time with your bf. If you guys are together too often, you get bored and annoyed with each other. Just try to get use to giving him some space, you'll get use to it.
2007-11-21 01:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by tuyet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prob needs some space. Some ppl juz need more space to do their own stuff. Find some activities/hobbies to do on your own and leave him on his own during those times.
If he is still cold, he is probably not that into you anymore.
2007-11-21 01:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by MAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just back off alot. make plans with your friends and chill with them for awhile. if he wants to hang out with you he'll ask. if he asks you why youve been backing off just tell him that you thought it would be best. dont call him everyday either. let him call you.
2007-11-21 01:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a day or two to figure things out you both probaly need a little time apart
2007-11-21 01:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by babyoutrigger99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋