so, there is this guy that i like a lot. i THOUGHT he liked me because we made out last month and he always invites me places and playes with my hand and today he put his head on my sholder on the bus and when i got off, my friend told me that he smiled, turned to her and said "she's very pretty."
then, we were on msn talking and he was like "can i tell you something, i think i like 'allie', but don't tell her because i want to tell her. i just wanna see where this goes" (allie is one of my best friends...)
my heart was broken and i don't know what to think. why is he giving me these messages?? he said he has liked her for about 2 weeks and has been flirting with my for a few months... please help... with ANYTHING! thanks =)
2007-11-20 15:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am guessing from your message you aren't very old, like in your teens. Given this, my advice to you is the same advice I wish someone gave me when I was that age.
If you like him, tell him. Guys are a little slow on picking up on things sometimes. Maybe he thinks you're just a friend, but maybe he doesn't think you like him. Tell him you're into him.
What's the risk?
2007-11-20 15:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by parakese 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just being a dork . He likes you. Your comfortable to be with and kind . In his mind you are a special friend but he has eyes for your friend. It hurts because you like him very much, and thought he was going to ask you to go out. You just learned what guys get clobbered with all the time. You get close to a girl and you think your going to end up as a boyfriend and you get only the friend part. Remember this feeling, and try not to give it to someone else and be careful what you do with your expectations. They can blow up on you. I am sorry this happened to you and hope you get the one you really want.
2007-11-20 23:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, that would hurt.
Ask him why he made out with you a month ago if he wasn't interested in you. It is not a very nice thing to do. Let him know that you thought he was interested in you, after having done such a thing. He is not respecting you, so you have a right to be mad and feel hurt. If he is not interested in you as a girlfriend, then don't let him take advantage of you again.
2007-11-20 23:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by poet1b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to make you jealous because he doesn't know what you think about him...try telling him how you feel, and if things don't go the way you wanted them to, then he's not a very good guy to like in the first place?
2007-11-20 23:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by luktsa55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your heart is not broken. You don't seem too shooken up.
Second he's a player
Third, he's rude.
You shouldn't be with someone who leaves you hanging. Maybe you should talk to him. Ask him why he has been flirting with you and why he wants to date her.
2007-11-20 23:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by airreca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either tryin to make her jelous or you either way u should both tell him to take a hike.he is playin games with both of u and neither of u need a headache that fricken big
2007-11-20 23:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by wolfettes lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be testing you, just tell him tell him how you feel about him before he goes off with someone else. if you like him, what are you waiting for...
2007-11-20 23:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's tryna be a player but idk y he would make out wit u n den try 2 get with ur friend knowing thats its ur friend ...tell him how u feel and then tell ur friend whats goin on
2007-11-20 23:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋