I broke up with my ex 6 months ago because i was confused on how I felt. She begged me for 3 weeks to take her back but i said no. My ex has moved on and has a new boyfriend. They look so happy. Shes doing so well and Im jealous. All Ive had are some random hook ups but no relationship. I miss my ex girlfriend. I want her back what can I do?
2007-11-20 15:23:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER:)
2007-11-20 15:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by ღRE♥REღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember this same question that I have answered before.....
I can see you are still bothered by it. Most people who are not dealing with a situation well will wish that the other person feels the same and they don't want to see them happy if they are not happy. That is a selfish thing, actually. I have wished the same too. I was so mad at this guy for cheating, I would wish that he couldn't be happy and would see how great I was and would apologize. I didn't want him back, just wanted him to feel the same thing he put me through. I wanted the next girl to cheat on him. He has had several.
I now have a wonderful boyfriend. The only way to be able to move on is to let her go. Forgive yourself and her. Think really hard. Do you miss her, or do you miss what you originally had with her? The things she did for you, how she made you feel?
I would move on if I were you. Easier said than done, I know. Wish her all the happiness and move on. You can volunteer and put smiles on others faces and in the meantime, it will lift your spirits to see how happy you have made someone else.
Everyone gets lonely during the holidays. You will find someone else and you will be more ready when the right girl comes along. Best wishes to you.
2007-11-20 15:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it....your jealous.......you see the happiness that she has and you wish that you had it. But it is too late she has moved on with this new guy and she is obviously happy and there is nothing that you can say or do to break them up, you will only push her further away. If you do miss her company then try and remain friends with her and see if she wants to be friends and who knows what will happen down the track...I'm not saying that something may or will happen for you but you just don't know what the future holds for you or what will happen.
But work on yourself and be happy for your ex that she has found happiness again. Just get on with your life and go out there and have fun and enjoy life and what it may bring you.
2007-11-20 15:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dancegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you dumped her and refused to take her back all because you were confused about how you felt. And now you realized you made a mistake and want her back. Too bad. You messed up and probably hurt her pretty good. She wasn't confused about how she felt about you, that's why she begged you to take her back. How would you like to be dumped for no appearent reason? I am not trying to be rude but if I was in her shoes I wouldnt dump my new guy to get back with someone that might just "get confused" and dump me AGAIN. Good Luck.
2007-11-20 15:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Me Me Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u'll just have to except that she's moved on. Now its your turn to make her jelous. get out of the house and do something spontaneous. Show her that your not still sitting in the moment and that you have your own life and now your going to live it. Even if you don't have a GF to show her..it will make her equally jelous to see that you are not bothered by her new relationship. If you guys arent together then you obviously werent ment for eachother. you've got your own dream lady waiting for you somewhere..just follow the path that life leads you and eventually you'll bump into her.
2007-11-20 15:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your feelings mean you should have her back. It just means that you DO have feelings, and despite what you've heard being male and all, this is perfectly healthy. But there had to be a reason you got out of the relationship in the first place, right? Do what's best for your well being as well as your heart, man.
2007-11-20 15:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by backslashyourasterix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you love her!!!!!! To see her happy with someone else is always a killer! To see her smile with him is even WORSE! Sometime it takes something like that to realize what a GEM you had in the first place.
To get her back will not be easy now, you have crushed her heart. : ( Maybe give her a call and tell her how you feel, and be honest.
2007-11-20 15:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by darlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get her back is to get another girl.
But really- forget about her. Someday you'll have to realize that you always want what you CAN'T have. I've learned that the hard way.
Once you have her back, you won't want her anymore. It might be fun to be friends, but maybe that's all you really wanted in the first place, without realizing it. Just someone to hang out with and act normal around.
2007-11-20 15:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jeri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm, grass is not always greener on the other side is it?
Don't make the same mistake again is the lesson. I always say that if you can learn something from even the most shi#*y situations then it's still positive. Life is short there is plenty of good chicks out here!!
2007-11-20 15:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard but you just have to get over her... if she is happpy with her new boyfriend then dont make anything harder on her its not fair.... you need to try and move on.. because true love always finds a way and if it is meant to be then you will be back together... and if its not meant to be then its not and it would have never worked out anyway... there was a reason you broke up with her in the first place.
2007-11-20 15:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love her and you were playing hard to get when you two broke up.she took you serious thinking it was over and moved on.You should have talked things over more before she found another love.You might try talking to her but leave her alone if she is really happy with her new man.
2007-11-20 15:29:46 · answer #11 · answered by rubyjuly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋