I mean if i seem sorta sad and i don't tell a guy why, because it's no big deal, do guys hate that?
2007-11-20 15:16:50 · 18 answers · asked by Atarie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES.when we ask it`s because we whanna help it`s not to be nosy
2007-11-20 15:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't like it when you pretend it isn't a big deal when you make it apparent that it is. If it is no big deal as you claim, then it won't interfere with anything when you are with him. How could it if it is no big deal, right? But if it does (and usually it does) then it is a big deal because it obviously is affecting you adversely, and in turn it affects him when he is with you. So you telling them a lie is what they don't like.
2007-11-20 15:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob A 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. I'm the same way, don't like to make a big deal out of things, but they get all crazy about that sometimes.
2007-11-20 15:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell yeah we hate that, especially if we tell you all the time. Are you a virgo? It's understandable slightly, if you are, but otherwise try to be more open or say I'll tell you later....a great way tog et them off the subject for a moment. No, but seriously are you a virgo?
2007-11-20 15:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We hate it just as much as you hate when we don't tell you something. If you are going to walk around moping and think the answer, It's no big deal," is going to work, you are sorely mistaken. So, when we ask whats wrong just tell us whats wrong.
2007-11-20 15:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Justin R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should... Guys want to be able to help you and kinda be that protective barrier against things that make you sad or frustrated.
2007-11-20 15:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by stuckboy94 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always tell.
If a guy asks what's up, it's because he cares no matter how little it is. It's a gesture that speaks, "I want you to put your burden on my shoulders."
2007-11-20 15:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cannestah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he asks you politely and it isn't something personal that you don't want to tell it... and it isn't a big deal... then why wouldn't you tell them?
2007-11-20 15:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would consider it a blessing!
What guy wants to hear all the drama?
You should want to keep a little mystery as well.
2007-11-20 15:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES that is so annoying. Makes things worse
2007-11-20 15:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋