Ok soo here i go i used to date this guy who i really liked i did a dumbass thing and dumped him for his friend it dident work out but he was dating someone else soo it wouldnt work then i moved....a while later my best friend who lived about 6 states away from him started dating him it was a long distance thing and i told her i dident want her to cause i still liked him and he was my x bf and she was my best friend wellllll
they broke up and today i found out i was moving back to where he lives and he told me he is still in love with me we talk alot and shes really upset she wants me to forget him but i can do that.She is saying im a horrible friend to still talk to him but idk what to do she cant control me and everything i just like him soo much she is always trying to make me feel guilty i just started talking to him again she thinks sence she dated him that i should stop talking to him he dident hurt mee soo i dont see the problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-20 15:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by His girl forever!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait wait wait ok she and him broke up like a year ago and i dident brake them up they chose too and she knwe i had feelings for him and she still buged him till he liked her
2007-11-20 15:17:10 · update #1
Ignore her. She doesn't have any room to talk. If you like him and he likes you then go for it. You shouldn't care what she thinks. Just trust what you love and go for it!
2007-11-20 15:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by beautifullover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that was me i would break down but I'm not so i have some ideas ;) well first i think you should call both of them and have a good long chat sort things out. next if that dont work who do you love more? (like your best friend as friend love...) I would go with the one i love more but still try to get peace between both of you you will regret it all your life if you dont. email me i need to get going
2007-11-20 23:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what you want to hear but...
Guys go with the whole "bros before hos" thing. We have "chicks before d!s." Be good to your girls first and foremost. Years from now you will realize it is the most powerful thing in the world and should remain priority #1. Men and great, but your girls are you sistas. Bad practice for sure. Good luck!
2007-11-20 23:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by Augie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Er, well, you get the idea. If it's okay for her to date him after you broke up with him, then it's okay for you to date him though she's broken up with him. If there's other issues going on -- that random "he didn't hurt me" comment worries me, why did you feel you needed to say that? is there something else? -- then it may or may not be good for you, but, sounds like you're even on the ex-swapping part at least.
2007-11-20 23:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Katie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have interfeered with your friends feelings and you cant help it if she liked him and he liked her. Although you knew you wanted too, it was still the wrong thing 2 do. You should try 2 forget about him.. be a good friend. Besides. Sometimes its funner just to be friends with a reall great guy!
good luck :)
2007-11-20 23:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by tennisbabe4eva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should back off, and let her have him..
You caused the whole mess, by dumping him for someone else...
and considering that, you'll tire of him again....
2007-11-20 23:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is lame.
she went out with him after you did.
so you should go out with him anyways.
i think your friend is jealous and still likes him.
2007-11-20 23:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm... well your friend was the first one to mess up by going out with him, so dont bother with her she is stupid... if you love him, and he loves you then go out with him and be happy!!!
2007-11-20 23:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sowhatisyourquestion?
2007-11-20 23:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by BeArPaW_4709 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋