he says hes ready and im pretty sure i am, we have been talking about it and have come to a choice they we are going to. i just dont know if its a good idea or not...?
2007-11-20 13:55:30 · 101 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
2007-11-20 13:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by cupnnas2002 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Sexual intercourse is an adult activity, and fourTEEN adolescent not adult.
Have you asked your parents?
I suggest you wait until you are of legal age, that's 18 yrs in some states, 21 years in other states.
There are some adult consequences in sexual activities.
First you can get an infection, and not only venereal and sexually transmitted, but also urinary.
Also you can damage your uterus (thats where fetus is carried for 9 months before live birth.)
Once you get these illnesses they can prevent your from getting pregnant in older years.
The fact that you are asking this question at 15 years old tells me that you are being neglected at home. Understand that children (teenager) that seek this activity usually really need is better relationships with parents.
Why don't you seek guidance from school counselors.
Read my other answers and find out why is the worse decision you make, should you go through with this.
Remember a phase my mom always repeated to her three daughters: "Boys always use! Girls alway lose!"
It's hard to take advice at your age, I was there once too, so I know. It is much better to take good advice then have to learn the negative results of 15 year old mentally decisions.
Don't do it. Stick to studies and fun activities like going to the movies, shopping with girlfriends.
Look, I'm a bit tired right now. Oh, did I mention why?
Well, from overcoming all the results from all the wrong decisions, my parents made and the ones I made as a teenager!
You need some serious talk, child.
What happens to anything that gets overly used?
Answer: It get warned out. That could be you a few years from now. READ MY OTHER ANSWER!
2007-11-20 14:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gynnie D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not!!!!!!!!!! As other people have said, are you both ready to be parents? Also, there are tons of STD's, and although condoms protect you from some of them, there's still a big risk of getting one. Some STD's can also make it impossible to get pregnant in the future. If the relationship is already headed for the bedroom after a month, that may be all it is about. How are you going to feel when/if you guys break up, which is likely to happen at this age? If you're pretty sure that you're ready, then you really aren't. Don't do something that you are going to regret. People who truly care about each other wait, they know there's no need to rush.
2007-11-20 14:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by erinheadleyfan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All thoughs who have just said NO! need to give more info.
The legal age to have sexual intercourse is 16 in most states/territories of Australia. if you and your boyfriend are both ready then i suppose its up to you. If you're worried about being disturbed while in the middle of your 'bedroom physical excersizes', a hotel room is the go. Just make sure you use protection! If a parent really cares about their child they are not going to be happy at all when they find out that they're going to be a Grandparent. Condoms can be gotten free from most health clinics and are in most cases 98% affectiveand protect both against STI and pregnacy. BUT! Putting two condoms over each other does not enhance the safety percentage. It causes friction and both will break. OK enough with the health lesson.
2007-11-20 14:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a good idea. Sure, you are both teenagers, and probably physically ready and extremely eager. The trouble is that there is no appropriate social context for having sex that young, and at 14 and 15, neither of you is fully able yet to understand how your social situation, and the possibility of pregnancy will affect you. It is also, of course, a crime at your age. Since you are going to ignore all this advice anyhow, at least you should absolutely insist on a condom.
2007-11-20 14:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having sex as such a young age has very big risks. While I am not one of these people who tells you what to do, (no offence, guys, but people have the freedom with choices.) I am going to warn you about several things that come with sex- STD's, pregnancy, and reputation.
STDs- Not even a condom can fully protect you from STDs. There many different kinds of STDs that you can get from vaginal, anal, or oral sex. An STD can eventually form into AIDS, the worst disease to get nowadays.
Pregnancy- Hun, you have the whole life ahead of you. Colleges, graduation, hanging out with your adult friends like there's no tommorow, reaching your goals.... Hey, do you hear the baby crying? Exactly. You don't need a baby now to ruin your dreams. And if you do get pregnant, there's also the consideration of having an abortion, a terrible procedure that kills the baby, or adoption, which highly gets him/her into an abusive family.
Reputation- You sleep with this kid now and you might get called a "slut" at school, and guys will only date you for sex instead of the emotional thing.
You have a choice. To loose it or not. But if you do loose it, you are losing other things as well.
BE. VERY. CAREFUL.
2007-11-20 14:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, no, a million times no. You are even too young to be dating let alone having sex. Do you know why there is sex? Yes, it is exciting and all that, but sex results in pregnancy and babies. Then there are all of the horrible sexually transmitted diseases. What would you do if you found out you were going to have a baby. You don't have an education, a job, a trade, a home, a car, you can't even drive a car to go to a job or the doctor, let alone pay for it and all of the other adult responsibilities you assume when you engage in adult activities like having sex. Love and respect each other enough to not have sex.
2007-11-20 14:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No.
1.) because you guys are only 14 and 15.
2.) because you guys only been dating for a month.
Guys have more respect for girls who make them. Also if he breaks up with next month because he thinks jane is hot and funny can't go back in time and change what you have done. Teenagers fall in and out of love like every 2 weeks. If you can't wait untill your older at least wait more then a month before you give it up. Try at least 9 months to a year. If he cant wait longer then a month then he does not really care about you. If you do decide to wait longer please don't tell him how long your going to wait because he may just stick around for sex. But I hope you don't have sex at 15 or 16 or 17 or 18.
2007-11-20 14:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I know you think you are ready but your not.Trust me I had my first baby at 17.I wish I could go back and do it again!You must think about all the std's out there and the chance of getting pregnant.You know how much pampers cost it's like $20.00 a week.Then you got formula that's like $130.00 a month.Plus clothes,car seat,shoes,wipes,medicine,shots,bottles,crib,and every other thing that pops up.Also if you want any kind of life you need an education.That means daycare,that's at least $130.00 a WEEK.Please learn from me and stay in school so you don't have to work at a fast food place.Because I had to quit school to raise my baby,and I only have a 10th grade education.Think about it I never went to prom,I did not get to walk across the stage,and I loved to go hang out with my friends on weekends know I can't remember the last time I did anything.Think about all of these thing the next time he talks about sex PLEASE DON'T DO IT.
2007-11-20 14:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey Brown 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH HELL NO!
14 and 15 is WAY to young to be having sex! if you think you are ready, you so have another thing coming! Are you prepared to handle the consequence that will or may result from having sex? Like a baby, or an STD.
Birth control!?! HA! I have my 3 yr old birth control baby, and my 1 yr old IUD baby.
Guys are always ready to have no matter the age. Thats just so they can have sex with you and then brag about it to their friends. Do you want the boys in your class to know all this personal details about you? If you sucked at having sex, if you had funny ordor to you, if you have a nasty birth mark, or if you are fat, etc!
Can you pay for diapers, baby food, can you wake up every 3 hrs to meet your newborn needs? Are you ready to give up your freedom?
No?
are you ready to handle the emotions if you have sex with this boy and he goes to school and spreads a nasty romour about you? Are you ready to handle the emotions if this guy dumps you the day after you have sex?
No?
Are you prepared if one day a doctor tells you, you have a sexually transmitted diease?
No?
then you are no way ready for sex?
There is a lot that comes with having sex. You are way to young! I CAN NOT stress that to you enough!! If you have sex..you have no idea what you are getting yourself into, or what risks you are taking!
You are only 14! my god! where are your parents?
Think about how crushed and disappointed they would be to find out their 14 yr old is having sex. Think ahead if you do get pregnant, who are going to count on? Your parents! If you are going to count on your parents to help you raise a child, then you need to show them some respect. and that would be to not have sex!
You are way to young! Think about school! And fashion and style. Find a hobby.
If you are 14 and thinking about sex then that just tells me you have some serious issues at home.
My stepdaughter is 13 yrs old. She can barely take care of herself let only ready to have sex.
2007-11-20 14:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy_Sarah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey.hey.hey!NO.that's a big no no kiddo.don't do it.yah,they're right.you're way too young for that matters.and wait,is your boyfriend really loves you?or he just like to hang with you for another reason,SEX.hey girl,don't give your virginity.give it on the right time and now isn't.don't risk it for you might regret it later.do you know about 'teenage pregnancy'?be aware.don't go to be a single mom.your effin' boyfriend might run away if he found out you're pregnant.you can't trust easily people nowadays.some would just use you to get what they want.so wait till you get older and go find the man that is worth of your virginity.but not now.your still young.just take time and enjoy life.hangout with you girlfriends instead.have fun and don't think yet of sex.and,do you want your parents to be disappointed with you?bet you don't so dont give it yet.trust me.hope this advice would help.take care. be safe fella.ciao!Ü
2007-11-20 14:08:04 · answer #11 · answered by assenav 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋