my girlfriend might be cheating on me what should i do?

Question

i love my girlfriend but every body tells me she is no good but when i talk to her she tells me that people broke up with her and that she is looking for someone who loves her but every time when i hanging out with my friends she always messing with someboy and i have a temper and i dont know what to do whether to break up with her and kick the guy a s s. my friend which go out with her friend told me that she was talking on the phone with his friend and asking him personal questions that shouldnt be ask. and i dont know if she trying to get back at me or just where not compatible cause i am a flirt but not where i would cheat i just like to make girls laugh what should i do ..

Answer 1

Why kick someone else's butt when it's your girl who's the flirt?

And don't you think you're a tad bit cheeky? If you can give it (by your own admission, you said that you're a flirt) then you ought to be able to take it (she's a flirt also).

Answer 2

Well, if you flirt to make girls laugh, maybe she has the same style (flirting w/ guys to make them smile/to get extra attention). I think if you remain in the relationship it will be a whirlwind. If she noticed you flirting with other girls, she may definitely be trying to get back at you. But don't go after the guys...go to the source. Speak to your girl and ask her why she does what she does. Most importantly, ask her if she is capable of stopping.

Answer 3

Sounds like she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.
Probably a drama-queen. More than likely trying to see whom she can soak for how much... in other words, a mercenary.

Don't dignify her with a "break up"... just move on.
Start hanging out with more respectable, mature people.
Flirt at will, date at will.
When you find "the one", there won't be any doubt in your heart, and you will keep that one.

Answer 4

you cant go on and keep hurting you self trying to know every time if she is cheating on you. u trusted her, she gave u that promise saying she love you and broke it, she is manipulate you, using you maybe for back up, had it happen to me before. the best way is just to MOVE ON you'll feel better trust me. you lover her but it doesn't sound like your happy, you will find some one out there more suited for you listen to what you have to say think if this is right for you HOPE I HELPED ##

Answer 5

Well it seems to me rather than asking all of us you should be kicking her to the curb. She sounds no good. Move on and find someone who's interested in you. You know what they say....you can't turn a hoe into a housewife and that's the truth. Good luck to yoU!

Answer 6

Ya'll both sound very immature. U dont flirt wth othr girls wen u hav a gf and she doesnt need to b talkin bout othr guy's personal stuff.

Answer 7

ok sorry to say it but you answered it for your self she doesnt sound to classy and from a female point she sounds like she would cheat on you i think you need to do some self inner thinking and not everyone is goin to keep sayin the same thing bout this girl if it wasnt true

Answer 8

You guys are probably just not meant for each other. If you really loved her, you wouldn't be messing around with other girls cause you like to. If she loved you, she wouldn't be asking other guys things.

Answer 9

I gotta say, you better break it off...its just a matter of time before it happens. Too much drama already. Think about it. Be with someone who doesnt make you feel like that ...geeeesh!

Answer 10

She's not worth getting into a fight over because from what you said it sounds like she encourages their attention. Find yourself another girl that is nicer. She sounds like what everyone is telling you she is.