How many guys should a woman have sleept with so she wont get a bad reputation? Is 18 man wrong? Or Is getting more experienced like Samantha from Sex and the City?
ps: dont judge me just answer my question or dont answer at all.
2007-11-20 13:15:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women are held to a double standard. for some reason people think it's not okay for a woman to have sex with 18 men, but a man is commended for sleeping with 18 women.
do what you want and don't worry about what other people think but just be careful of diseases and pregnancy!
2007-11-20 13:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by callie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if you slept with 1 or 18, its a bad reputation period for women. Its hard being a sexually active women in this society without being judged. So like I said it doesn't matter thats why alot of women keep how many men they slept with a secret. u know that saying when a man says 10 cut it in half but if a women says 10 double it...Well its true and all honesty I feel its because of society. A women is a whore if she sleeps with many men but a man is a "pimp".
Regardless women will never tell how many men they have slept with through out there years.
2007-11-20 21:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was going out with a chick and she told me she had sleep with 18 guys i would be thinking in my head (well im about to be 19) then after i was 19 i would run 19 miles an hour to get the hell away from her. i feel that is way to many men for me to deal with. i would keep thinking every time we had sex that there have been alot of other people in here befor me. not a joke.
2007-11-20 21:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by the wild child rock star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not answering anything, im making a statement.
if you need to have sex with some one to boost your own self esteem or make a reputation for yourself then you need to see a shrink.
there is no law saying you must be "experienced" before you have sex with someone!
the more you sleep with the worse you look.
why dont you try to open a Bible, wipe the dust off it and start at page one. and just incase you didnt know what it means Bible stands for "Basic Instructions before leaving earth" if you cant even get the basics down....
.. why dont you try having a relationship before you drop your pants.
2007-11-20 21:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by n00b420@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex and the City isn't real. Sleeping with 18 guys makes you a dirty slut in my book.
2007-11-20 21:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by sol_s_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NONE! if you don't want a bad reputation, then don't sleep around. that's a dumb question, when you have sex with like 18 people- you really had sex with all their sexual partners. so imagine MAYBE YOU HAD SEX WITH OVER 100 PEOPLE.
R U HAPPY NOW!?
2007-11-20 21:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by You wish you were my chapstick~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly, your logic is FLAWED - increasing the number is the EASIEST way to get a reputation (as being easy, a whore etc.)!!!
There is a HUGE difference between "getting experience" and "sleeping around" - it has to do with QUALITY vs. QUANTITY...
Banging 100 guys does NOT you a better lover - but being with ONE who KNOWS what he is doing DOES ;);););)
2007-11-20 21:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how many men you have slept with,,,just tell people 1 or 2 when they ask you about it. that's what i do LOL
ain no wrong with 18 men. the more experience, the better sex. who doesn't love that?
2007-11-20 21:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by ONE MAD GURL 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell people how many people you have been w/. It is messed up that guys are cool if they sleep w/ a lot of girls and girls are s luts. It not fair. Girl do what you need to do and stop worrying about what people think.
2007-11-20 21:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Vanessa♥ஐ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. 18 men in the course of how much time?
Regardless, I'd expect one heck of an expirienced BJ.
The rat
2007-11-20 21:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋