my ex bestfriend (Well the reason i call her ex bestfriend we havent talk for almost 4 yrs..we see each other but we dont talk the sameway) well to get to my question she send me a email,,,,about two weeks ago,,, she want to meet me for dinner so we can talk about the way things been between us,,, but i send her a respond and told her i was going to be busy for the rest of the yrs... do u think that's wrong or should i go to dinner and talk to her?
2007-11-20 13:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by ro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the truth is i am busy for the rest of the yr.. but the reason that i dont want to go is because i always been a good bestfriend to her, she the type of friend that agnor u when she have new friends or boyfriend,,, so in this point of my life i really dont want that kind of friendship with someone like that...i really love her as she was my sister....always been there for her... when u get to some point of life u really dont want to deal with adult acting like kid....
2007-11-20 14:52:35 · update #1
You're busy for the rest of the year? No way she bought that.
2007-11-20 13:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you sent her a clear indicator that you don't feel the need to socialize with her... at all.
In life, there are people you keep, and those you allow to drift away, and those you just plain cut loose.
You spend your time with the people who are nurturing to you... those are your friends.
Anyone else you take as they come and go... those are acquaintances... people you don't really worry about.
Personally, I have only "cut-loose" a very few people in my 48 years of life... people who have made it a point to waste my time, gossip about me, use me, or pull some kind of drama-stunt. I don't miss them.
The people you allow to "drift away" are typically people that you have outgrown.
2007-11-20 21:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c you haven't really talked for four years doesn't mean you two can ignore each other. Go to the dinner, and catch up with each other. Are you mad at her or something?
2007-11-20 21:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her, give her a chance, you'd probably want the same thing! I don't know, I would think that would hurt her feelings, so go for it, it couldn't hurt. You could save your friendship, good luck
2007-11-20 21:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by UniversalGalaxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to go to dinner with her?
You guys can reminisce, the other time you guys had.
Sounds fun to me. (:
2007-11-20 21:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by dk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating her, or is this just in the wrong category??
hahaha...you told her you were booked for the rest of the years? that's funny.
2007-11-20 21:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to talk to her ..say sorry but no...and leave it at that
2007-11-20 21:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋