DO YOU REALLY THINKS HE'S IN LOVE WITH ME? HE LEFT HIS BABY MAMA AND NOW HE TELLS ME IM THE ONLY ONE.
PLEASE HELP:(
2007-11-20 02:34:39 · 56 answers · asked by I LOVE HIM SO MUCH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ewwwww! No! Any grown man who has to have a relationship with a child has some serious issues.
Yuck!
He is in love with what is between your legs....sorry sweetie...I know that sounds cold, but it is true.
2007-11-20 02:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I don't think his age can help me determine whether or not he loves you. If you're having doubts, they're probably coming from a gut feeling that might be trying to help you not be manipulated. Take things slow and don't be naive. If he pressures you to do things you don't want to do or is generally disrespectful, then he isn't treating you right.
By leaving a woman he got pregnant, he's not showing that he's very a) responsible or b) kind hearted. You could just as easily turn into the "baby mama" you mentioned, and he'd probably leave you just the same.
There's an old saying that goes something like, "If they'll do it with you (leave his other girlfriend for you), they'll do it to you (leave you for someone else)."
2007-11-20 02:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all where are your parents because this is totally against the law. Secondly, what are you thinking? At 16 someone with a baby, especially a 25 year old is way to much baggage. Third, if you think about it someone who is 25 and says they are in love with someone who is 16 is disgusting. This doesnt make him warm and fuzzy because he said that to you it makes him a perv. You need to date guys your age. You would be surprised how warm and fuzzy they can be. You need to tell this guy that he isnt it for you right now. That you need to think about getting into college and starting a career. The truth of the matter is that a man who can leave a woman who has labored his child for a child isnt a good man at all and needs to be arrested.
2007-11-20 02:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he left his baby mama for you then he must really be in love with you. Im 16 also and im also going with someone that is 26 and its hard because sometimes you doubt that if ur really the only one. You just have to learn to trust him.
2007-11-20 02:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo!Answers isn't going to know if he's really in love with you. However, we can judge by your question and judging by your question, I would say no. He will probably do the same thing to you once he knocks you up, then he'll leave his new baby mama (you) for another young girl. I'm 26 and I could not imagine dating someone that much younger than me, especially if I already had a baby with someone else. Open your eyes here and listen to your brain.
2007-11-20 02:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Brooks 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thats just gross. Hes 25 and you are 16. Looks like he likes them young. You have a ton of growing up to do and he needs to get away from the back path at the high school. Dump him and move on. He doesn't love you. He loves sex and getting women pregnant then leaving them. He is going to leave you after you have a baby then you will be a teen mother who never went to college while living in your local trailer park. Do you really want this.
2007-11-20 02:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. If he's 25 with a 16 teen year old then there's something wrong with this person, plus he has a baby and left the mother and is telling you he loves you then he's probally using you or something. I don't mean to be mean but I don't think he's really in love with you.
2007-11-20 02:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer that question but you! When I hear about older "men" with younger girls I can't imagine that they are in love. Guys are known for telling girls what they want to hear. 16 is too young to be in love, especially with someone who is 25. Not too mention it's illegal. If he left his baby's mama for you, don't you think that he's going to leave you for someone younger? Good luck!
2007-11-20 02:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Little Miss Naughty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you get the point from everyone else
he just too old for you
once ur in ur 20s maybe 9 yrs isnt so bad but at sixteen ur still young maturing teen woman and he's a grown man
im 23 and i wouldnt date anyone under 18 and that still kinda alot
i honestly think this relationship will go nowhere plus he can get in big time trouble if your parents were to find out and press charges
sorry but plz be smart use ur head
2007-11-20 03:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to sound like an old fart but I believe that he is far too old to be involved with someone of your tender age. Also I personally believe that he will use you for whatever he wants too then drop you like a hot potato. Be careful not to become another baby mama for this man.
2007-11-20 02:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no he's not in love with you that's a HUGE difference for your ages. If you were 25 and 34 I wouldn't think it was that bad. he should know better! AND if he left the mother of his unborn baby for you what do you think he would do to you!?!?! oh he would never leave me... i hope your using protection because if not he'll leave you too! what a stand up guy ... thats some one i want to bring home to mom ... Hey mom im 16 hes 25 and he just left his baby momma for me! yeah that sounds great! GGGOOODDD LLLUUUCCCKKK!!!
2007-11-20 02:40:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋