her ex boyfriend he doesnt want to lose her by being her father but he doesnt want her talking to him anymore the kicker its my sister doing it to this guy ...i think he is a great kid and i try to stay out of it but i get pulled back in because he comesto me about it i tell him staright up your 19 you shouldnt have this stress at this age just walk away ....i told him if they would break up i know it wasnt because of him ...please help
2007-11-20 02:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by Dan M 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok the people involved
My sister who cant giver up her ex
and her boyfriend who i discribed as my friend and me because her b-firend comes to me with his problem
i have talked to my sister on many occassions she says she is not doing anything with her ex but i as her brother am finding hard to believe
i also told her that the b-friend she has now is to good for her stop stringing him along
2007-11-20 02:23:38 · update #1
It depends on what the deal is with the guy and the girl and her ex.
Is she friends with the ex and hoping to get him back, is the ex friends with her and hoping to get her back, or are they just friends and that's it.
Boyfriend needs to stop and think about what is going on with the GF. Is he unreasonably jealous or does he have a reason to be jealous. If he is unreasonably jealous, he needs to take a deep breath and step back because the harder he pushes this issue, the sooner she is going to dump him. If he has a reason to be jealous, then she's not serious about him or any relationship just now and he needs to break up with her so he doesn't have to deal with the drama and he is now free to look for someone who wants him.
And you are doing the right thing by not getting involved. Just keep doing what you are doing and let him know that you can't get involved because GF is your sister and if the relationship is causing him stress and not joy, then your sister isn't the girl for him.
2007-11-20 02:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with a sister and a friend, the best thing you can do is stay out of it. If you take sides some one will be made at you.
2007-11-20 10:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It so hard to try to make someone understand how much they are harming themselves when they don't see it. You should just stop listening and switch the subject as fast as you can because sometimes people don't see the uncomfortable situation they are putting you through.
2007-11-20 10:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hips16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to your sister. And you should also have your friend talk to his girlfriend. And is she talking to her ex because she loves him or shes a whore? Maybe your friend should just walk away if she knows that he dosent want her talking to him or maybe he should tell her how he feels maybe she will understand
2007-11-20 10:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Joanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 'friend' is dating someone and they refuse to talk to an ex, then maybe they need to find a new girlfriend. Its that simple.
2007-11-20 10:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by MayMay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an average frustrated chump with no spine. your sister finds him boring.
it's because of guys like him, that women like your sister, phuk guys like me.
2007-11-20 10:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand this story, too many people involved
2007-11-20 10:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...
Why worried...See whatever happen - It's made by god only....So say thanks a god for doing everything & that person has to put trust in god.......Because god is final almighty.....
2007-11-20 10:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by mb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋