i had a dream about my ex. please read details before answering?

Question

i recently had a dream about my ex girlfriend. we broke up because she wanted to get way to serious and get engaged and married to early. we were 19

im about to turn 21 now and im going out with another girl now which i like a lot better. we don't fight like i did with my ex, plus on top of it all, my ex had a lot of psychological problems; bipolar, borderline personality disorder, and schizophrenia

anyway, she's been seeing some weird guy who seems really sketchy but im glad im out of it, but i was surprised when a friend of mine told me she is pregnant and is engaged now

in my dream, i dreamed that i went to her house, knocked on her door, she answered, i listened to her belly and felt the baby kick. then her bf walked up behind her and looked at me, and i walked away feeling kinda like i was being looked down on. then someone walked out of her house and almost spit on me and my ex goes 'omg i thought you were going to spit on him' and she laughed. what does it mean?

Answer 1

Sounds like you are feeling insecure about the breakup and how it may have made her feel. Don't worry, you made the right decision.

Answer 2

Many non-believers on R&S ask for evidence and tangible information that there is a God. I even have advised them to ask God to teach them himself. while human beings look for him, they're going to locate him. there isn't any way you could teach any tangible information of what you have in my opinion experienced, nevertheless many won't have faith it even got here approximately to you, because of the fact it hasn't got here approximately to them. yet issues like this have and do take place to those that extremely have a coronary heart for God. I even have additionally had my own studies with him and haven't any doubts that he's actual. not something i will teach others, yet i comprehend for myself, he's actual. Pray and study the bible on an time-honored basis. make advantageous that each little thing you notice, pay attention or experience on your encounters line up with the notice of God. in specific cases while a individual is at a low element of their life, the Deceiver will are available as an angel of light and pretend to be who he isn't. at last he will attempt to steer them in the incorrect course. He can bring up issues out of your previous additionally, because of the fact he's conscious you. make the main of the call of Jesus often. He hates that call and in case your encounters are from God, which i'm hoping they're, you will comprehend interior your spirit.

Answer 3

i cannot 100% agree that you've made the right decision...
(i'm not 100% sure because i need to know more detail about both of you before i could make a better statement)

because even thou she sounds like a very problematic person, maybee you could be the one who help and save her, i mean if you stay with her at that time (i'm not talking about marry her), you could comfort her, in short word you become her hero, she might be able to cured from all those personality disorder. and you might kep her away from some bad guy whose just trying to use her.

have you watch the movie "A Beautiful Mind", a true story about a genius and shcizoid person who able to take over his sickness. One thing about his glory is, he a got a loyal wife that stays with him his whole life and courage him, comfort him, give him all the attention he needed.

you might be the helper for her.

but, don't felt guilty about your decision
i also doesn't mean that your decision about her was a mistakes.
you might help her if you're with her, but also you might not. There's a 50-50 chance to both of them.
well, there's alot of thing matters, and i need to know more if you want a better comment about your problem.

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now, about your dream.
I think it's more about yourself feeling guilty about her condition. Deep in your unconcious you think that you took part in her suffering right now.

well... don't... it's not your fault
maybee you're not trying to help her, that doesn't mean that you're responsible to her condition.

Let me tell tou one thing, Every person must take responsibility of themself, you to yourself, and her to herself, so any bad thing she experienced, it wasn't your fault, and if you've made the decision to leave her, that's just fine.

any wrong things happen in her life, it's her own mistake. If there's others who should be blame, they're her parents...

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now you can relax, don't bother about hern anjoy your life this time.

Answer 4

You're letting go of that relationship. Even though you're in a much better, healthier one now, hearing of your ex, has stirred past thoughts about her. It sounds like you've moved on to green pastures! Good for you pal! You won't regret it!