I have fallen in love with a girl who has a boyfriend..?

Question

she has a boyfriend..that lives out of state..she's gone to see him..and i love her..what should I do ?

we are very good friends...

Answer 1

Let me ask you , is she in love with you?.If the answer is no, forget about the whole matter. If the answer is yes, chances are you are going to have her.The reason is simple, if the guy live in other state or whatever, chances are sooner or later she will be tired of have someone over the net or over the cell phone.You can do this:talk to her and be clear with her about the long distance relationship and the phone or net matter. Tell her, she needs a guy and fun, she needs a person who care about her,she needs contact, since relationships are feelings,touches,smiles and physical contact.Tell her, she can't have those, because the guy is far away and perhaps, he is cheating on her. Chances are,we can't stop our wild desires.Talk to her, and make your case.Best luck, fella.