why do i wish for a boyfriend so much? i dont think it gets in the way, and im terrified of commitment, but i want a guy to kiss. why do i wish for this so much? and why doesnt it show. trust me, i dont look desperate, but idk. help?
2007-11-19 14:23:15 · 33 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I'm taken.
But, you know, it's natural. Humans just sort of like started out that way: wanting affection, wanting the opposite sex. And your desperation doesn't show because that'd scare guys (and anybody else) away. And maybe you do have it worse than some. Everybody's different, and some people get that need met by having a loving father or just a loving and affectionate family period.
Don't worry about it though. You'll find a guy to love you when the time is right. In the mean time, try to have some fun, get out where guy's can check you out. Anywhere's good. Guy's are very visual. While you're there, try pretending that these guys are asking you out and kissing you. I hear that gets good results.
2007-11-19 14:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Porch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're looking for a boyfriend, believe me, this isn't the place to look. How can you really get to know someone from the way they type words?
And if you want something that's going to last, you're going to have to understand that is going to involve much much more than kisses. Anyone with two lips can do that. Someone special will have much more to offer in a relationship than that. And so should you.
Instead of trying to FIND the right person, concentrate and work on BEING the right person. Then when the right person does come along, it will be very natural to build the relationship from there. Trust me.
2007-11-19 14:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't. I'm old enough to be your mother!
Seriously though, you're feeling lonely as a lot of single unattached people do at the beginning of the holiday season. Just enjoy your family and friends and count your blessings. Put a stone in your pocket and every time you reach in and feel the stone, think of something to be thankful for. It will make you feel better. Before you know it, someone worthy will come along. Until then, you can imagine how much fun it will be. Visualize!
2007-11-19 14:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Freeway 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey i know things might feel desperate right now but these guys could be sex offenders 40 year old hobos looking for pretty girls to rape looking for a guy on the internet is looking for trouble don't be in such a rush if you do you will get not what you wanted if you wait you will get more than you wanted don't waste your first kiss like my friends did. a first kiss is a very speacil thing in a girls life everygirl needs to have a good one
2007-11-19 14:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by mistoemegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want one so badly because..
you might not be conscious about it, but you want to find in that kiss a confirmation. Someone who's telling you..you're special.
And that's because your selfesteem is not really telling you're worthing that much.
Is really a "I don't look desperate" all you can get to tell yourself?
Or maybe you just want to experience a kiss..but then..you don't really need a boyfriend for that.
2007-11-19 14:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone looks to have someone to hold in the dead of night, a person to just chill out with and not have to worry what that person does own their own, I once to wanted to just be alone and enjoy the time to myself, but found a yearning for a friend to hold and love on.
2007-11-19 14:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by James E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way.
Like I havent been loved in so long.
Like the people I like always come half way and then nothing happens.
I come on here and give advice that I myself should be listening to, yet I never do.
Sigh, life seems so easy in words, but its so hard when your living it.
2007-11-19 14:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwww, I would love to be your boyfriend. I think its adoreable that you want someone to kiss. It shows that you are a passionate girl, thats loves passion. I think its normal to crave that. Just dont jump into anything. Your a sweet girl, and it will be worth the wait to kiss the right guy.
Love the right guy hahaha :)
2007-11-19 14:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by maplewoodjoe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl i feel the same way. And if i think about it i would not really like to date any of the guys in my school they're all idiots. but yet i want that dream guy to be thier to love me and hold me !! idk what to say to that all i know is that i guess we have to stick to a guy friend and get closer and closer from thier hehe :)
2007-11-19 14:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i won't be ur boyfriend but u could go on a dating sevice and ask for a guy that lives near u, about ur age ,and is sweet and kind
2007-11-19 14:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by prittyandpink01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋