I was at a fancy restaurant and she was the manager! she told me that she loved dating Women because she is bisexual! She first made some coments about my eyes and my lips put her hand in mine and then asked me out! I told her that I was so very grateful and humbled for being asked out , but told her that I had no interest at this time! what was even more astonishing was that she had not one but two crosses around her neck! so here is my Question ! - how are homosexuals Christians even though the religion and it's members blast these poor ppl for their sexual orientation?
2007-11-19 12:31:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I go to this restaurant a lot ,so she has seen me lots and we've talked before! when I got up to get somthing from my car she followed me ! I have usually others with me so she was afraid to ask before!
2007-11-19 12:40:53 · update #1
there is nothing wrong as long as there is someone there to vidiotape.
2007-11-19 17:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by joe c 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called "presentation". It's not a symbol of any other aspect of their "wardrobe" ( By that I mean to include all of the parts making up the whole: i.e. meds, manner-of-dress and the various other components of the living manifestation of "Who I "Am" in the Eyes of Those I Live Among".
Not to undershoot the emotional and physical aspects of this question, but how open-minded are you?
Not judgin'. Just askin'.
I think as hot as you are and the way the topic is out there..
It is not that far-fetched to say the thought has crossed your mind, in an innocent, yet, thought-producing way, of course. Thoughts aren't sins, actions are truth.
You must feel at least flattered to be approached in style by one of the finest, Kudos!!!! You got to have Sumthin'! goin'on.
The rest is faith in a thing you can not see, and can not touch. Obviously, it bothered you enough to have made a level of understanding about yourself and the world you live in. And it scares you. It scares you because it has you questioning.
In other words.........
We all have been given free - agency to make our choices, with the blessing of a "Creator" who has variable interpretations available to us, as we are all different, yet the same.
If I were to go to the Pearly Gates and have to lay claim to trying to God's job. (judging)_. I don' wanna!
Jewels have taken too many shapes and meanings to try yo gauge the 'correctness' of wearing a cross-symbol with the same "symbolism" or value.
Take the free compliment and say, most politely: "Thank you, but no!"
2007-11-19 13:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by john_r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand her, you are beautiful! She's right about your eyes. However, lets go to the question. If what they said it's true, why not?Didn't Christ loved everyone? Even lepers?
Why wouldn't a bi or homosexual loved him?
Christianity doesn't have anything to do with Christians, if you know what I mean.
2007-11-19 16:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. wait one minute. some ppl dont even think about what they beleive in when they put on jewelry. others wear that kind of thing to show that they r the "in" crowd. still other wear it for the "shock" effect. she may not be a "christian" or that she was conditioned what to wear when she was growing up. I wouldnt judge a book by the cover. if you had asked her why the crosses, she might have answered your question. she may not have. there r all kinds of ppl in the world. in my opinion, i treat them as i would be treated, and i wouldnt go by their clothing or what they have. I wish id get hit on like that. lol have fun!
2007-11-19 12:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by dirktheman 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yeah - I've always been mystified by that as well.
If I thought I was hated, reviled, vilified and generally shat on by any aspect of my culture I sure wouldn't want to be part of that particular part.
May be they masochists, d'you think?
Then again this Invisible Sky Critter (ISC) thingy has a fairly strong hold on some people and ...
Damn! Why would you want belong to cult that believes in ISCs in any case.
That's totally weird.
2007-11-19 12:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm a "member" of the Christian "religion" (it's not a religion btw) and I don't blast these "poor people" for their sexual orientation.
I would have to question the work ethic of someone who makes dates with customers at a restaurant.
I also question this ever happened. Sorry, but life in R&S makes me skeptical. No offense intended.
2007-11-19 12:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Why can't a person who likes people of the same sex not believe in a religion? They have just the same amount of rights as everyone else to believe what they want.
2007-11-19 12:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by We're all mad here. 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I have attended several very large Christian churches in the past, and not one of them ever "blasted" a gay or bi-sexual person. They do believe the Bible says it's a sin, but still they have never "blasted" them.
There are those who say they are Christian and don't believe the Bible says it is a sin, although it seems impossible to me to construe it any other way.
2007-11-19 12:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I don't think it's easy to do either. What strength they drew from the first experience probably helped them with the other. There are some churches that are rather accepting fo all lifestyles.
2007-11-19 12:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by lifeilluminate 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Does the Bible say that lesbianism - specifically - is wrong?
That would be yet another reason not to follow Christianity!
2007-11-19 12:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by AM Enforcer 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Wearing a cross doesn't make anyone a Christian.
I agree with .....kenny p.....
Made up story.
2007-11-19 13:02:25 · answer #11 · answered by Spoken4 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋