I have a thing with self esteem.
I am a dude, but I have it with like...for example, I have really big troubles talking to the girl who I like -alot-.
The thing is, I can tlak to her when she talks to me...I am always just telling myself that if I actually talk to her...I will be shotdown, or just ignored overall.
I wasn't really sure about my self esteem issues until I got around 8th grade when people was humoring themselves by calling me fatty, fatass, fatso...you name it.
My main thing is, is there an easy solution to helping/fixing my self esteem problems?
If so...may I see?
~Thanks.
2007-11-19 11:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by //Shook. 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Unfortunantly there is never an easy answer, it's something you have to work on. Maybe therapy would help. Good luck.
2007-11-19 11:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by cl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you would learn a new job, a new tool or a new way home from school; you will learn a new way to stand in self respect. You are a very special person loved by God. He wants you to have the very best but you have to pursue it on your own. Stand in self respect and know that you can succeed with ladies and all that you put your mind to. The more you know, the more the ladies listen; if you are witty they'll listen even closer. Girls will be your buddy and more if you are very sure of yourself. Go for it man!
Proverbs 3 in the Bible says it all.
2007-11-19 19:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by peterngoodwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body Image. Body image is the way you see and imagine your body. If you feel good about your appearance it will give you confidence in everyday life.
2007-11-19 19:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out.. its easier then it sounds. just be happy you're not a girl.. its harder for girls to lose it then guys.. 5 days a week at the gym should do it
2007-11-19 19:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehhh...let me be comletely honest with you...i wouldn't date a fat guy...you should try to lose weight....i would date a fat guy if i saw that he was really sweet an intelligent....also try to dress better or something..maybe do something nice with your hair....have you heard if American Eagle??? or abercrombie...or hollister or abercrombie??? if you dress with those type of clothes....or something like formal but casual at the same time...you know??? Try to talk to her, and make her laugh...but don't TRY TOO HARD on trying to make her laugh...cuz that never looks attractive...BEST OF LUCK...I WASN'T TRYING TO OFFEND YOU OKAY??
2007-11-19 19:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Karla 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋