Hi.. i slept with a friend about two weeks ago...several times in one night...it was very passionate...a lots of kissing, hand squeezing during, back rubbing, cuddling all night. Then...same thing happen four days later... I am quite confused...
2007-11-19 09:11:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if its happened on 2 occasions 4 days apart that would not be a 1 night stand decide what u are willing to do in this relationship and then talk to your friend to see where you are at it could just be friendship with benefits as someone else said or you might have moved on to something more
2007-11-19 09:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one night stand does not always mean a one nighter. Usually it is taken as having sex with some one you really don't know, and on a very select number of times, often only once. I think the key here is that it is a friend. So, this is either something more serious, as in a possible LTR, or really, its a friend with benefits, or a 'booty call.' Either way, you should talk to your friend and find out the reality of the relationship, and then decided if you want it, and can handle it. Being confused very well could be a sign that you don't want this.
2007-11-19 09:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by mrwjr2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it with the same person or a different friend? If it was with the same person, then that's okay. Maybe you are on your way to being than just friends. If it was with another friend, then you might want to think about why.
Are you just looking for "fun" or something more serious?
Honestly, the sexual part of a relationship is just a small part of the overall experience of a relationship and in my opinion, you really should focus on building the relationship first before you sleep together. Been there - done that.
2007-11-19 09:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jon Kurt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh so that's not a one night stand..that's a relationship!!!!
just so you know, kissing,hand holding, cuddling, and back rubbing is NOT considered to be "sleeping together", nor would you say you "slept" with someone if these are the main activities that took place.
if you mean you cuddled and kissed and held hands all night after screwing each other 4 or 5 times..yeah then that's sleeping together :) How sweet.
2007-11-19 09:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon I have heard of situations just like this one ,friends discover that they have feelings for each other and I really believe two people should become friends before lovers. And that is why there are so many broken relationships, because once the sexual stuff is gone they have nothing left. But I feel the best person to talk to is him find out what he is thinking and what he feels .Happy Holidays hon.
2007-11-19 09:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused about? You slept with someone who you considered a friend and you did it more than once. Are you looking to have a relationship and feel like it's not happening? Or are you afraid of what she may be thinking? Some more information would be helpful.
2007-11-19 09:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by jen_ny6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happened twice so there must be something there! You are obviously sexually compatible.
Make the most of it, but make sure that's all it is, and make it clear it is a bit of fun, and make sure it stops if either of you find someone.
The point is to keep this fun, don't let it turn serious unless you really want a relationship with your friend.
Sex with a friend can be the best, just have fun but be careful.
Good luck :)
2007-11-19 09:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by Curiousity killed the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how much alcohol was involved.
You may be a 7+ when he is drunk, ... but only a 3 - 5 when he is sober.
Just kidding, lots of relationships between friends start this way, one of you just has to confront the other, so you can discuss what direction your relationship is going.
2007-11-19 09:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Blow at High Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have a f-buddy. I had one once. It's always the most passionate of affairs as you know so mch about each other. Ask your friend what their intensions are. You both could get hurt and even after 5 years the pain of losing your friend and inevitabley falling for them will still be there. Just ask them and hopefully they will give you the closure you need....good or bad.
2007-11-19 09:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by cestradoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it was a 2-night stand.
Quit sleeping with people-especially friends--if you don't understand what you are doing.
Has he called you in between or are you a booty-call? Do you go hang out other places besides bed-now that you put out?
Have you wanted him in your life as a boyfriend or is he a booty call?
Figure that part out, when he is not there. Then follow through.
What is there to be confused about?
2007-11-19 09:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋