Guys have a tendency to check me out, or stare at my breasts or legs when talking to me- Even if I’m wearing just a plain tee and jeans.
SometimesI find it really amusing and it cracks me up- it’s like they can’t possibly grasp the idea that I’m noticing them doing so, and they won’t make eye contact throughout the whole conversation… however sometimes it’s perverted. But what can I do? I mean I can’t say “quit staring at my boobs/legs/*** already!” or can I?...
2007-11-19 09:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Stop talking. When someone abruptly stops mid-conversation the natural thing to do is to look back at their face to see what's going on. So just stare at them until they make eye contact. It will work I promise. And when they make eye contact with your FACE and not your boobs, ars, etc... begin speaking again. It's a very subtle, ladylike way of saying "Stop it or this conversation is over!"
2007-11-19 09:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Acorn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you could say just that, if they're being really obvious about it. You could, also tilt your head down some, to bring your eyes to the level where their's are, that's a pretty big hint. You can also try (in a pleasent tone of voice) saying, hey, my eyes are up here! The point is, if someone is making you uncomfortable, you have a right to address it, but you don't have to be as rude about it as they are if you don't want to.
2007-11-19 09:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do. Guys will always look, even if you wear baggy jeans and a loose t-shirt. It is just programed into their brains. You could remind them where your eyes are, but it is a losing battle. Just appreciate that guys find your attractive.
2007-11-19 09:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them if they would like a picture. I hate it when I am looked at like a piece of meat and I have small boobs. I either ask that or if they mind me checking him/her out....or stop talking till they look at me, then I shake my head in sympathy because they will never see what-ever they were leering at, and smirk at then while continuing what I was saying! Have fun.
Always tell them what you said at the end of your post!
2007-11-19 10:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by crazygurl in VT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guy's are just like that, I've had the same issue. Since I'm older now i just say "hey buddy my face is up here" or "they're not talking to you i am!"
Other times i just ignore it.
2007-11-19 10:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nasra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you catch them doing this, duck your head down to try to make eye contact, wave your hand and say, "Hello?! My eyes are up here." and point to your eyes. That should make them embarrased when they realize they've been caught in the act.
2007-11-19 14:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's bothersome, and really intrusive and annoying.... I generally say something along the lines of "it's impolite not to look the person you are speaking with in the eyes" .....
2007-11-19 11:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Foggy Idea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump up and down! LOL, seriously though yeah you can tell them to stop. Say "hey, I'm up here, the girls ain't interested!" Or something to that effect.
2007-11-19 11:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could say "what are you staring at? My eyes are up here. I know what you are staring at. You disgust me.
2007-11-19 10:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♥less 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shove my tongue back into my mouth and push my chin up to direct my look at your face.
2007-11-19 09:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋