I had a terrific first date with this woman, we're going to see each other soon, as soon as a we ended it, we went into a small store and she couldn't stop staring at nylons and pantyhose. I happen to have a fetish for women in them, so I asked her if she wears them and says she doesn't and I told her she'd look good in them and she playfully disagreed. Then we took a train and several girls in minis and heels/dress shoes were on there and I couldn't help but glance but I noticed she stared at them more than I did! I asked her something and seemed distracted after she looked at them.
Does she want to dress like that for me in the future after another date or two, or is she possibly bi?
She doesn't seem it.......
Help?
2007-11-19 08:41:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tmfbitu,
If anything why don't you subscribe to Mr.Guccione's swag mag.
If anything, your bitter, acrid answer only insinuates you're a bitter washed up clam.
Don't answer people if you're going to insult them. Yes, you're entitled to your opinion. Just like I am for calling you for your supposed rudeness.
2007-11-19 08:47:03 · update #1
Low self-esteem?
I agree....although they couldn't be any worse than Sophie B. She's the poster child for misery.......
2007-11-19 08:50:18 · update #2
Dear Penthouse. . . .
2007-11-19 08:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural for us girls to want to look pretty and to be jealous of other girls that we think are prettier than us, which it seems she was but didnt want to share. I say you should probably just keep making her feel good. Comments like the one you made about how she'd look good in nylons/pantyhose are comments that make a girl feel good, even if she doesnt say so, and boosts self-esteem. Kepp up being there for her, I dont think shes's bi, I think she just has low self-esteem.
2007-11-19 08:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're putting to much into this...does this really matter that much? Honestly...I don't think the relationship will work out if you're not 100% happy with who she is....and don't try to change her either to make her into something shes not. Couldn't it just be that she has a staring problem? I stare at chicks all the time and that doesn't make me bi....come dude think! let this one go!
2007-11-19 08:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to listen to your gut instinct. That is normally correct. If I were a guy and I caught my girl staring at women, then I would think she was a little on the bi side. YOu should be very sensitive and ask her about it.
2007-11-19 08:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by pudinpie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand I mean, are you sure she is as fascinated wtih panty hose as you are, or are you make believing things, because you want her to be. I mean that whole story sounds kind of wierd, but hey, whatever floats your boat. Why don't you just ask her to wear some for you and see what she says, or better yet just buy her some and see if she will wear them for you
2007-11-19 08:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to a game of dress-up. Tell her to wear the pantyhose and you'll wear something special for her.
2007-11-19 08:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be bi. She might be considering herself wearing it, and was probably not even really looking at them but spacing out thinking about something else.
2007-11-19 08:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just trying to figure you out.
Maybe she'll model for you.
Keep the lines of communication open.
2007-11-19 08:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by nandina221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you're strange.. and was wondering why she went out with you in the first place....
2007-11-19 08:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋