It has been puzzling me for sometime and I would really like to know.
2007-11-19 08:10:57 · 70 answers · asked by Tanya S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If the Christian is unmarried? Yes. If the Christian is married? In a way, it's a sin NOT to 'do' oral sex --- at least if the other spouse wants it --- because it is selfish, and we know that's against God.
Scripture says nothing about oral sex, so we can only assume that it is like anything else in the marriage bed --- okay as long as both agree and no one else is involved (that includes no pornography).
2007-11-19 08:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by KL 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I personally don't believe anything is wrong with any type of sex - but then again I am atheist.
But from a Christian standpoint - or anyone who believes in the Bible, sex is only spoken of for procreation between a husband and wife, or someone having an affiar or being tempted to have one and punished for it. I was raised in a very strict religeon and that was one thing that bothered me.
Then again - there are many many religeons because there are many different interpretations of the bible.
I would never push atheism or anything on anyone. I am a strong believer in reading/researching for yourself and finding what is best for you.
I suggest you read the bible or any other spiritual literature you have, and based on what you see and hear, make the decision that is comfortable to you. Whatever feels right.
2007-11-21 03:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by LS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For all those young teens taking abstinence pledges in the name of the holy spirit, consider the facts:
Teen STD infection rates are the same for both those taking the abstinence pledge and those who don't. The teens are under the impression that only intercourse counts as sex. My definition of sex includes anything involving the sexual organs for pleasure or procreation.
Where does the bible state that oral sex is restricted to married partners only?
2007-11-19 08:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are married, otherwise I think if you are a true Christian you should be saving yourself in every way of the definition. Which would also include not giving or receiving oral sex. Because it is something that is intimate and a loving expression for the one you are with.
2007-11-19 08:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think sex is sex no matter what form. If you don't believe in premarital sex then I would think that would include oral sex. If you're married then by all means whatever type of sex you and your husband agree upon is A-Okay.
Yeah me. Leave it to me to be answer 69 on a question like this.
2007-11-19 08:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie Queen of All ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a man and woman do in the privacy of their own home, whether they are Christian, Catholic, or whatever religion they are, is their business. I personally don't think it is wrong for Christians to experience oral sex with their spouse. Sex today is more for the connection and pleasure experience rather than just for procreation.
2007-11-19 08:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by KJGabe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The role of every religion is to slowly turn your mind into a mind of love. Most people, Christian or other could not totally stop the mind of lust or desirous attachment arising. Over a period of time though, lust (desirous attachment) lessens, and love increases. You really don't have to be quite so strict on this debate.. If you give someone a bl0w-j0b, you don't automatically condemn yourself to hell.
Of course it's ok.. Just examine your intentions! heh...
2007-11-19 08:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by pauljg1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Friend is "christian" and she is waiting for sex. but her and her boyfriend of 3 yrs does "Things". When I was going out with a "Christian" guy he always wanted to do stuff... and that made me mad cause he was always saying he was christian and stuff. and then at the end he broke up with me cause God told him to. So to answer your question yes I think its wrong. cause oral sex is SEX. It even has the word sex in the name!!!!
2007-11-19 08:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by karen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does it matter? If you want to engage in oral sex with your partner, then go for it. If God really had something against blow jobs then he would have had it written down now wouldn't he? Seeing as how God created man in his image, I don't think he nor any other man would be against it... I'm surprised the men who wrote the bible didn't slip it in there as another "duty" of their wives.. haha. If God has a penis I can guarantee he isn't against oral sex....lol
2007-11-19 08:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bible says the marriage bed is undefiled. Sex within the bounds of marriage is to be enjoyed frequently, and there are no biblical restrictions.
Heb 13.4:
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
2007-11-19 08:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋