2007-11-19 04:43:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She's likely a lesbian. How could any rational straight woman turn down sex with a man such as yourself? Two ways this thing will end up: One, you'll live a sexless, loveless marriage. Two, she'll include you in her lesbonic trysts and you'll live an awesome girl-on-girl, but still loveless marriage. Here's wishing you a number 2!
2007-11-19 11:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you love and respect her you will respect her wishes. If you get mad at her then you have no business marrying that particular woman because even if you force or convince her to go against her beliefs she will hold that against you the rest of your life.
I was 40 and divorced when I met and dated my current wife, she was 23 very religious and a virgin,. I respected her wishes and did not even ask or try to get her to go against her belief and to this day 15 years later she appreciates that and looks back on our dating as a very positive and loving experience.
BB
2007-11-19 04:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking her this question. Not the rest of the world.
She is taking decisions for the both of you without your opinion taken into consdieration. Are you two getting married?
But then again, if you love her you will respect her beliefs.
Peace
2007-11-19 04:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If it make you see more clearly, My fiance & I are waiting until our wedding day to even kiss. We truly want to honor God & eachother and are waiting! I am so proud, we only have a little over 2 months left & then when we finally do kiss it will be worth the wait & we will reap the rewards of waiting for the rest of our lives! If you truly love her, you would do what is important to her! Think it throughk, because it will only be better for you later....
2007-11-19 04:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Charity L 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is right. You are wrong for wanting to do anything else. Respect her chastity and virtue and realize that she is trying to reserve herself as a special gift for the one man that can dedicate himself to her on a permanent basis. If all you care about her is how fast you can get under her clothes, then you are a most selfish and unworthy lout. She deserves better than you or anyone that feels as you do. You need to look up what it means to be a husband, to care for her and protect her more than you do yourself.
Please rethink your priorities and her worth to you and/or your worth to her. This is not a fun and games proposition.
2007-11-19 04:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by rac 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you feel differently, how did you get to the engagement stage already? At that point, you're already too emotionally involved for it to be a relationship-breaking issue. If it is, next time don't wait so long.
2007-11-19 04:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you angry with her? Or yourself because you can't separate lust from love? Having sex does not necessarily indicate you will have a lasting relationship, either in or out of marriage. Respect her in this one small request and you have her gratitude and love for a lifetime. Pressure her into having sex and she will have less respect and plenty of resentment toward you. It is good that she has morals when so many don't.
2007-11-19 04:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
As salaamu 'alaikym.
Insha'Allah, hopefully at the next bus stop whlie leaving you and the bus!
Insha'Allah, she is trying to practice the actual teachings of her faith while you seem only interested in your carnal desires.
Insha'Allah,as you have such differing views, perhaps it would be best for her to find someone who shares her faith and the practice of the same, which, obviously, isn't you!
Ma'a salaam.
2007-11-19 04:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Big Bill 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
While my wife and I were not celibate, if you can't respect her wishes perhaps you should consider whether you truly love her.
2007-11-19 04:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bob C 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If you're the right guy, you'll be willing to wait. This has a 98% success rate.
You can do it! Many of us have reaped the benefits of waiting until marriage.
2007-11-19 04:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by zeal4him 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋