How can responsible commenting be taught? There seems to be a lack of respect. I am not whining. This a problem for hundreds of thousands of local people. It is exacerbated by the locals talking about this without thinking I could ever understand their language or pick up nuance. It is accepted is to allow it to continue it is all over the media. I know the overweight are severely looked down upon and disrciminated in this country. My doing something about it is like a runaway train. People are even touching me. They are ignorant and comment on my size without abandon or care.
2007-11-19 00:26:44 · 11 answers · asked by searcher_2005 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
This is not just one person doing this.
2007-11-19 00:49:11 · update #1
Whoever is calling you fat every day is extremely rude. It doesn't matter if you are a foreigner or not, no one should be rude to anyone, for any reason.
If this is happening at work, you should inform your supervisor or employer of this person.
If this is happening on the street, tell the person he is rude and to leave you alone.
If the people are talking about you, thinking you can't understand them, tell them you understand and are listening to their conversation. That usually shuts up busybodies fast.
I don't know where you are, but the people there are extremely rude. And totally inconsiderate. There is no excuse for their behavior. I am so sorry that you have had to experience their poor behavior.
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2016-10-17 06:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by bobbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be sarcastic and ask if they wanted to borrow my shirt or something. Don't let it bother you. Some people are just ignorant. Be happy with yourself and the way you look and just live happily ignoring the ignorant. Different cultures are raised expecting their culture to look and act a certain way but don't let that rain on your parade. We are all different sizes and colors because it would be boring if we all looked exactly the same!
2007-11-19 01:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is truly as widespread as you say, I'm wondering if you are perhaps in a culture right now that allows people's weight as a topic. Latin American culture, for example, does not find it as rude to discuss a person's weight, and people are often called affectionate nicknames that have to do with their weight. Are you perhaps in another culture?
2007-11-19 12:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cavorim is an idiot. Of course, the right to free speech means that people are entitled to call you fat. But you also have a right to free speech and you should use it to tell these people to shove it. If they continue to verbally abuse you, then report it as harrassment. Being overweight doesn't mean that people have the right to insult you without consequence.
2007-11-19 00:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you should not accept it. Tell the person they don't know what they are missing because they don't know what is inside. Ask them if they have ever seen the movie "Shallow Hal"? However you should not let it get to you. There are other people in the world who can see past your outside appearance and see what is inside.
2007-11-19 00:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by lakjnqueen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing!
Just because somebody else is rude there is is
no reason for you to respond in the same fashion.
An alternative would be to respond in some why
that indicates that you are well aware of your physical
attributes and that you are comfortable with just being
YOURSELF!
.
2007-11-19 00:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My false friend use to say that to my face but i accepted it constructively (she thought i will feel worse) and now i am sexy. i lost lots of pounds and now people can't help but notice and comment on how slim i got....even those who are snobs..... its just how you react dear and how you think you contributed to the problem. do something about it first.start with yourself, then to others.....good luck...GOD LOVES YOU smile
2007-11-19 00:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by nini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go here :
http://www.fatorslim.com
See where you are standing and get a proof.
You'll have a way to prove the others you're not fat !
2007-11-19 06:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by s_vio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "It's just more of me to love baby!"
If people are touching you, you should report it. Go to the cops. People just can't touch you.
2007-11-19 00:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by sydney77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋