my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 6 months and i am now suspecting he is smoking.
i dont like smokers, it makes me sick and i never thought he would be one to smoke...
he knows that i dont like smokers and knows i wouldnt tolerate smoking and that i couldnt date anyone who smokes...
does he just want to split apart? if so why hide it from me?
how can i find out if he truely cares about me and is not smoking?
2007-11-18 23:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by i♥you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wont consider dumping him if he is i just want to know the truth...
2007-11-19 00:03:48 · update #1
if he does smoke then you would smell it on him and if he uses cologne afterward then you would tase it when ya kiss him.
just ask him say that you smell cig smoke when ya kiss or hug him and ask if he is or not, but reassure him that you wont leave him but you would like if he would stop
2007-11-18 23:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God you're high maintenance! Have you thought for one second that if he is smoking, it has absolutely nothing to do with you, but he knows you wouldn't like it, so has to hide it from you!?!?!!?
It shows how much you care for him, if you would consider dumping him for smoking. It is his choice at the end of the day. I would say that he is being a coward though. He should be like, yes I'm smoking deal with it. If he's smart, he won't do it for long. Also people like to rebel, the more you say don't the more he will do it.
2007-11-18 23:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love your boyfriend smoker or not, it wouldn't matter anyway..
2007-11-18 23:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by [275] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly care about him, you will talk to him about it.
2007-11-18 23:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋