Ok so Im 22 and its been quiet a while since I had sex (about 2 & half years) and Ive decided to get back in the game.
For the time being Im looking for a "just the once" thing to end the celibacy. Im not looking for a relationship just someone Im attracted to that I can have sex with.
First off Im a little nervous about the sex part...is there anything new I should know about??
And secondly whats the best way to ask for a one night stand...I dont want to come across as trampy so if I meet a fella out and take him home do I tell him straight up Im not looking for anything serious or just let it roll...
2007-11-18 23:40:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any guy would be interested. I am. Just go some place you don't frequent, and let some guy pick you up. Don't be too easy, a bit of effort on his part may even turn you on more. If he looks like a nice, clean, straight sort of guy, then you should be happy with that and roll with it. Don't forget to take some protection as some guys don't carry any. Just relax and let nature take it's course. Just make sure it's far enough from home so as if you don't want to see him again you won't be running into him every 2nd night you go to the market. (and let a friend know where you are, just in case.)
2007-11-18 23:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Col B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sex has been pretty much the same since the dawn of man. I don't think anything has changed significantly in the past couple of years.
As far as asking for a one night stand without sounding trampy - can't be done because it IS trampy.
If you've waited 2 and a half years, can't you hold on a little longer and look for someone you could have a meaningful relationship with?
Think about this, if you do have a one night stand - and enjoy the sex so much that you want more - are you going to keep having a series of one night stands? You must know how dangerous that is to your health. Every time you have sex with someone you are exposing yourself to so many potential diseases. I'm sure at 22 you know that when you have sex with someone you are exposed to what ever they have been exposed to by their previous partners. Which can be quite a lot if you're looking for a guy that will give you a one night stand.
You seem to be an intelligent girl. Use those brains.
Good Luck in whatever you decide.
2007-11-19 07:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tauri Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one night stand, although pretty hot, is not a good way to get back in the swing of things Basically because if you go with someone experienced you have a better chance of getting a desease, and if you get with someone not very experienced,chances are it won't be a memorable time.
Either way, the odds are against you having the experience you imagine. Best wait for a good guy you have feelings for.
OMG I Am An Old Man!
2007-11-19 08:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by G Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to use protection. I, honestly, would not just do it for the sake of ending a period of celibacy. It is not a good feeling to have to get up and walk away after you have given such an intimate part of yourself. It is an empty feeling, that I think you will regret if you have waited that long. Why not wait a bit longer until you have found someone you really care for, and that really cares for you?
2007-11-19 07:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just let it roll must guys want the same thing. once u do the deed just dont call thats what i do. as long as u use protect and dont do oral u are good. use protect always and remb hpv and herpes u can get even if u wear protect just try to know ur partners history good luck. ask lots of questions b4 u do it. i think u should go out a couple times so u can get a feel for the guy bc remb hpv and herpes can be spreaded even if u us protect good luck
2007-11-19 07:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by veg4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure the guy wraps it up and have fun. I would say you don't even have ask, go to a bar or club. there are always guys there looking for only a one time thing. Good Luck!!!
2007-11-19 07:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Flipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Col B really got it. he's right, if you're looking for a one night stand the do just like he said, the most important thing is to be really far from your house!
2007-11-19 17:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no close but not personal friends out there for you? I would find someone just outside of your "circle" and no, don't say anything about it being a one night stand, just move on after wards,
2007-11-19 07:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by jerry kaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it roll. My friend made a complete prat out herself by telling the guy it was a one night stand.
2007-11-19 07:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.. Sex is better when you do it with someone you love and not just someone out there... You won't know if he's got STD's or something.. Be careful there..
2007-11-19 07:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by [275] 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋