I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and we are both in our mid-20s. How do I know if she is for real about me? How do I know if she is serious about our relationship? I am a type a guy that likes to be reassured that I am being loved by my girlfriend and that she only wants to be with me. Any advice would be great!
2007-11-18 23:30:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a scientist, and only go by her behaviour. Is she consistant? Does she call when she says she will? Is she available when you want to talk? Is she supportive and interested in your life, and work? Is she sensitive to your feelings?
Oh, and you have to remember she is human, and things like being late isn't a character flaw. Try to look at her behaviour overall rather than nitpicking isolated things. Otherwise you may be feeding some neurotic tendancies. Keep yourself in check and try to be pragmatic. Good luck!
2007-11-18 23:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jon,
Ask her what you want to know.
The basis of a relationship has to be COMMUNICATION and RESPECT.
Sit down across the dinner table, take her hands in yours, look into her eyes and tell her how much you care for her and ask her how she feels about you.
She will appreciate you for asking and will be more impressed if you actually listen to her answer.
Be prepared though in case she doesn't give exactly the answer you want.
Be honest with her and she should be honest with you. Either way, you'll know and then you can move forward to the next step or take a step back if need be.
Good Luck
2007-11-19 07:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tauri Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she thinks your kids will look like if you were to have kids together. If she looks like a deer in the headlights, tell her you want to break up! There are girls out there that have what you are looking for ; open and talkative. If you have to prompt your girlfriend tell you she is serious about your relationship, how sincere do you really think her answer will be? As you get older, you will get more confident and it will be much easier to find the right girl. Good luck!
2007-11-19 07:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her, but you would probably get the same answer, if it was true or not. The best thing you can do, is without being weird or over the top, show her how much you love her, and how serious you are. Then you can judge by her reaction. Lead by example.
2007-11-19 07:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like 2 be reassured to. mayeb u can call or from a different phone change ur voice and try 2 come on 2 her. if she has aim or yahoo maybe im her and see if she will talk back 2 u and ask if she has a bf. or see if she has my.space and look at the comments her friends make. good luck hope it helps
2007-11-19 07:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by veg4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be giving some clues by this time as to how serious she is about your relationship! I would want my bf to come right out & ask me anything that he had concerns about! Just have a quiet non confrontational talk with her!
2007-11-19 07:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she admire's everything you do, and if she can't stand to be away from you ever. If you're the only thing that she want's to see when she wakes up and the only thing that she wants last to see before she goes to sleep. If she says 'I love you' for no reason, and if you're both so alike that it's almost impossible. Look for the little things ahe does, that shows her feelings. Hope I helped.
2007-11-19 07:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by YoUR mY WoNDeRwaLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just by her actions. (actions speak louder then words)
when she goes out of her way to make you happy, she smiles everytime you look at her and her whole face lights up. she says she loves you and by looking deep into her eyes you know its true.
ask her friends about it maybe that could help too. see if she talks about you all the time. ask them if they think you two are great for each other. listen to what she says, watch her behavior, and dont let her eyes slip away when she wants to talk to you about anything..
well i hope this helps a little....
2007-11-19 07:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by i♥you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the opportunity to talk to her about how you feel, and ask her if she is feeling the same way about you. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
2007-11-19 07:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite simple, move with some other girl for some time and watch her feelings. In this experience you loose her.
But if you ask her directly, you may gain her love and confidence in you.
It is up to you to decide what way you choose.
2007-11-19 07:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋