Does anyone know of any good tips on how to find out if he really is cheating. I need evidence so I can prove it. I'm fairly sure he might be, but it could just be flirting which i'll still dump him for, but for peace of mind i still wanna know for sure if he is in fact cheating cuz it'll help me get over him quicker. I'm up for any suggestions, anything at all.
Thanks guys.
2007-11-18 23:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once you have lost the trust its over, for some reason you require solid reason for moving on, Just do it and put it down to experience.
2007-11-19 00:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u dont need to finish him if he's only flirting, flirting is really helpfull for ppl confidence and it can actually help keep relationships fresh. Any way have you tried asking him out right? look him in the eye and ask plain and simple. Or try to catch him out.... do u have an idea who hes cheating with? try texting him from a number he doesnt know pretending ur someone else?
Good luck and i hope hes not cheating.
2007-11-18 23:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bill J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 'fairly sure he might be cheating', then talk to him about it. I wouldn't stoop to trying to catch him at it. Why would you lower yourself? Chances are you will be just as confused as you are now. You either trust him or you don't. Try talking to someone with perspective to see what they think. Get another perspective and then decide what to do.
Mind you a good friend of mine suspected and then visited her boyfriend when he was supposedly busy with school friends. She sat outside his house and saw them holding hands and well, it sounds like the most painful thing in the world to me. I wouldn't go that route but she is glad she did.
It's a very personal choice, you have to prepared for what you find. All the best.
2007-11-18 23:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, it's not necessary. If you've lost the trust enough that you'll break up anyway, then just leave. You don't have to leave "because he cheated" you can leave "because the relationship didn't feel right anymore." Trying to set him up doesn't portray you in a worthy light, so don't do it.
2007-11-18 23:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think like a detective.
2007-11-18 23:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋