I don't know why, but guys just don't talk to me. If they do, i talk back, it's like they don't seem interested. Am i boring or something? My friend's say i'm intimidating but i don't get what i'm doing wrong?
2007-11-18 23:09:35 · 13 answers · asked by baffledgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there is never such a thing as being "too picky" when finding a guy. You will know when you meet the one who's right for you. No use wasting time or settling for someone who you feel is less than right for you.
I was in much of the same situation. I never dated until i turned 18 and only had my first serious relationship at 19.
And yes I know how much is sucks not being with someone. but being single is ALWAYS better than being in a bad relationship. Just give it time (yeah i know, easier said than done, lol) and I promise you everything will work out. you'll be glad you held off for the right guy!
good luck w/everything
2007-11-18 23:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are too young. I mean not too young to date but too young to be worrying about if something is wrong with you. Now if you are 46 and never had a boyfriend, maybe there's something you are doing wrong but until then don't worry about. If your friends said you are intimidating, then you probably a very beautiful girl. And at age 16, there are not many guys that have that much confidence to talk to a beautiful girl.
2007-11-18 23:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by Flipper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With so little info about you, itcould be one of many things. Maybe you seem to want to be left alone. After all, you make them talk to you, right? 16 is plenty young. How would you like to find out that you were taken by the wrong guy when the right guy came along? Don't rush anything. It's kind of flattering you want a boyfriend though.
2007-11-18 23:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the bullshit advice posted above. Good things may NEVER come to you. I am a guy who was in the same position as you when I was 16. I am now 25 and have waited forever with no luck. God just doesn't want some people to be happy I suppose, and the rest of the world unfortunately will never understand.
2007-11-18 23:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
And what ever you do don’t try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend.
While you didn’t give much detail I would guess that you are somewhat more mature than the boys that are around you, thus they are intimidated. Give them a couple of years to grow and catch up to you. Then I have a feeling you will have to carry a stick to beat them off, you will have so many trying to ask you out.
For what it is worth I didn’t date until I was in college.
2007-11-18 23:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by jerrys1960 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh....we're the same! i'm also 16 and i don't have a bf yet! well there are some asking me to be their gf but i turned them down...it's just that i love to study first before any relationships.
maybe you're just too shy to talk with the guys. that's how i see it. they are the first ones to strike a conversation with you. why not try to strike the conversation with them first.
most of my friends are boys and the thing that they love most about me is that i try to view their day in "boy's way". it's not being boyish..but you'll find out that some boys love to hang out with girls to whom they can easily open up to. eventually, one of those boys would turn up to like you too! why not try it! but don't give them the image that you look flirty. otherwise, they might avoid you
2007-11-18 23:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by gvlumbao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries gal, sometimes we just felt guys of the same age or circle is just not mature enough, its just you see that there is no 'right' guy, why force it when u have no feeling for the guy? Just wait for the right guy to come, forget what your friend says... Don't just go into a relationship just because of peer pressure...
2007-11-18 23:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by lemon.chamomile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with you at all!! 16 is very young!
2007-11-19 05:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by SWM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are trying too hard,at your age take things easy and let relationships develop naturally
rest assured there is someone out there for you just dont go searching too hard you have plenty of time ahead
2007-11-18 23:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by bellyfatpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should there be anythin wrong wid you.....itz not necessary that you date someone or flirt wid someone one or the other time.......i thnk itz not a basic necessity of life.....is it?.....at least not at this point of life....relax n enjoy life till u r single......
2007-11-18 23:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kilgore Trout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋