an ideal husband in the sense who makes his wife happy in all possible ways atleast during the first year of their marriage? what are the possible ways to enjoy or keep a happy and unforgetable 1st year of marriage?
2007-11-18 22:59:18 · 15 answers · asked by inquisitiveno.1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Definitely with positive experiences and memorable moments. Travel, camping, dining out, couple dating, lots of pictures and things of that nature. Try spending alone time in beautiful places. And you don't have to travel far.Try a bed and breakfast or Go to the nearest botanical gardens or spend the night under the stars at a camp ground or the beach. Things can be simple and pleasurable. And take lots of pictures to preserve those fun moments.
2007-11-18 23:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Samijo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that an ideal husband or an ideal wife does not exist. After all we are all humans and can fall short of pleasing the other most of the time. The best way to keep a happy marriage alive is to try your best to keep your partner happy and positive. Do things that make them happy and feel appreciated. I think its the LITTLE things that we do that makes a happy life. You do not need to give them a diamond jewelry! A small note saying you love them or a breakfast in bed can be great ways of showing love! My boyfriend went out jogging one day and came home with some beautiful flowers that he got from the roadside for me. That showed a lot of love since I felt I was on his mind when he was out exercising! Once we were driving and he stopped near a flower shop and without saying a word went in and got me a beautiful red rose! That's love to me! LITTLE things but VERY IMPORTANT ways to show appreciation and love!
PS. These things if done would ensure a happy marriage or relationship not just for a year but might constitute a life long union!
All the Best!
2007-11-18 23:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is for a lifetime! If you just want to be happy for a year, don't get married! Marriage is tough work and the only way to enjoy it is to share dreams (even simple dreams) with your spouse. Material things come and go; sit down and discuss how you will both feel if you loose everything, then go and get married if just being with the other person would be enough to keep you going through the hard times. Too many marriages today end the day after the honeymoon. Your wedding is just a gateway you pass through on your way to the real thing so don't put too much emphasis on the wedding or you'll always be looking back to that special day and never be happy.
2007-11-18 23:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ideal husband would be respectful and trustworthy to me no matter what. I want someone who will argue with me and won't be a push over. Someone how makes me smile/laugh and doesn't take me for granted.
I think when you really love someone and have a good communication system it lasts longer. I think a perception of marriage is that the one spouse should make the other spouse happy but its not there responsiblity. To make them happy or complete each other. Couples should work together and have a good communication and be able to disagree and compermise.
2007-11-18 23:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise!
Your idea of an ideal husband is different from everyone else's idea of an ideal husband. everyone is different. so, saying that, you must tell your husband what you want so he know's how to make you happy!
Talk to your husband! Communicate your needs to make an unforgetable 1st year and more marriage!
Of course any marriage would not be complete without love.
So that is my three cornerstone's to marriage, Compromise, Communication and LOVE in any order!
Good Luck and have fun!
2007-11-18 23:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by brian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be considerate, compassionate and patient. Patience is a virtue, indeed. Know when to get angry - don't get angry over every little thing. Your spouse expects to be relaxed in your presence and not constantly worried. Be that anchor that s/he heads for when they are feeling overwhelmed by other life situations. Don't make them think of their friends or family when they need someone to talk to: "I'll just go home to another argument." Go out a lot, dine a lot, laugh a lot; the first year can be the most romantic of your entire marriage. It can also be extended to many more years to come if you are sympathetic, loving and patient.
2007-11-18 23:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Gamar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going on dates every weekend, going somewhere beautiful like paradise for at least 2 months where the weather is hot and a tropical beach nearby, not having any plans for having a baby, going for shopping once in a while, leading a healthy lifestyle, and enjoy each others company as much as possible b/c you will spend the rest of your life with that person.
2007-11-18 23:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by zari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listed in the order of importance:
1. Loyal
2. He must love his wife even more than himself.
3. He must be both a good leader and a good servant, freely willing to do both.
4. He must be able to nurture is family.
5. He should be a good lover.
6. And this might seem weird, but you'll be happier if you like his fragrance -- and aftershave is irrelevant -- his natural fragrance.
2007-11-18 23:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
character like mirror
will power like rock
mind like computer
thought like perfums
and he will not wait untill 14 feb because he love everyday everyhour everyminute everysecond inshort everymoment of life to his wife this is defination of ideal husband i m trying to do that i think you have to try take care bye
2007-11-19 00:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by hir bhatt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes husband ideal?
He loves me and recognizes that love is not a noun, it's a verb. He shows me everyday, in a million little ways, just how much he loves me. It's not the grand gestures (flowers, gifts, etc.) those are nice, but it's in the way he starts my car for me to warm it up on a cold winter morning, the way that he suggests going to *my* favorite restaraunt instead of his, etc.
He respects me, in all things and in all places. He never puts me down or calls me names in public or in private.
He supports me, my dreams, my goals, my ambitions. He's my biggest fan and he sometimes has more faith in me than I have in myself.
He's proud of me, of my intelligence, my sense of humor, my looks (even when I'm not proud of them).
He supports,encourages and participates in my relationship with my family and friends.
He listens and responds to my needs.
He joins me and shows genuine interest in my hobbies and interests. Even if they're not exactly his "cup of tea" he gets enjoyment from the fact that I'm having fun.
He's always willing to talk and to acknowledge my feelings. Even if he doesn't exactly understand where I'm coming from, he understands that my feelings are just that, *my* feelings and they need to be respected and considered regardless of whether or not they make sense to him.
He recognizes that marriage is a partnership and that it takes 100% effort from both people involved to work and work well.
He also realizes that some things are more important to me than they are to him and he responds to that. For example, having a clean house is important to me, so he helps me keep it that way (even though he couldn't care less whether or not the floors are scrubbed, etc.)
He's willing to admit his mistakes and work on correcting them.
Please note: These behaviors from both parties make a recipe for one great marriage!
What would make a bad husband:
Belittling your wife, in public or in private
Showing no respect for her talents, interests or abilities
Disregarding her feelings and her needs
Not being willing to carry your share of the marital load and putting less than 100% of yourself and your time/effort into your marriage.
Failing to support her goals, dreams and ambitions
2007-11-18 23:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋