Alright when i was 15 i had a cousin named amy.We both had a myspace.That was the only way we could stay connected cause she lived in portugal and i lived in california.Then one day i was on myspace and she haden't been on for a year.I emailed her and tryed everything but she'd never replied back.Four days ago i looked at her myspace and she hasen't been on for four days.Then i looked her up on people search and it said "Amy Ponceano Deceased Age 23".That's when i went online and searched portugal's news and it turns out 2years ago a car with my cousin (amy) and her boyfriend (henery)Were driving in a foggy night when they drove into a lake and drowned.I am depressed and my mom and my family dosen't know my cousin and her boyfriend soon to be husband is dead.How can i tell then without makeing them break down crying.
2007-11-18 19:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why had she not been on for 4 days if she died two years ago, something is wrong. Write to her parents and express condolences but I don't think it was her that died maybe someone with the same name.
2007-11-18 19:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's absolutely devastating and I'm so sorry. Don't worry about crying. It's not a bad thing to cry. Feel your emotion, mourn your loss and tell your family. I am sorry for your loss.
2007-11-19 11:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by oh_my_its_linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that...
That was a pretty awful way for you to have found out.
There is no better way to tell them something like this.
You should just tell them.
I will say a prayer for you and your family. -God Bless.
2007-11-19 04:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will cry ...no way to stop them from crying cus that's their and ur family how can they feel not sad... just tell them slowly dun kip it or things may get worse if they find out kay?
2007-11-19 03:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by applestory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There no way to tell them without making them cry.
You just have to tell them and go on.
They have to know it's their family.
Go and tell them and be there for them.
You'll pull through.
Sorry for your lost.
2007-11-19 03:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by gabiehr9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bout your lost and you should just say how u feel and what in your heart
2007-11-19 03:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by sheriff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you.
just be strong and move on
2007-11-19 07:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by GAPO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋