My boyfriend and I have been invited to four different places for Thanksgiving. My moms, my dad's, his dad's, and his mom's. I work 6a-2p on Thanksgiving Day and do NOT feel like going all over. Either does he. How do we satisfy everyone? His step mom is kind of a b*tch and I think will be irritated if we don't show up, but my boyfriend said he just wants to go to my Mom's and I wouldn't mind just doing that either. Suggestions on what to do? Or what to tell his step mom so she's not pissed at me?
2007-11-18 18:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell them all that you and your bf are going to have a quiet Thanksgiving alone. You could even invite some friends over that have no where to go for Thanksgiving. You can pick up leftovers later at your mother's house.
2007-11-18 18:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think staying home or flipping anyone off is the answer.
Why not go to your mom's for dinner, which is what you both want to do, and then your stepmom's for dessert? And if you still want, visit the others over the weekend.
A gift to somebody else shouldn't be a burden to you. If anybody harps, just explain that with getting up and working a full shift, you're just not prepared for any marathons and regret not beng able to be everywhere.
Good luck.
2007-11-19 03:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Step Mom to go to hell and go where ever the hell you want.... Hell you could tell EVERYONE to **** OFF and u and your boyfriend have your own thanksgiving dinner with friends!
2007-11-19 02:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by cag77 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
If you are comfortable with your mom's place then go ahead...
Cheers
2007-11-19 03:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do, you will piss off some people, so just go where u want
2007-11-19 08:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by sugarpie2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go meet somewhere lol
2007-11-19 02:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by S--slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋