left me to live with some other woman, to live "off of her", and i heard its a pigstye. wel i am miserable, in general, and wish i had someone to love, to make my life happier. How can i do that?
2007-11-18 16:07:16 · 3 answers · asked by Diana S 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Before you worry about having "someone" to make your life happier.... You need to get happy yourself.... You should be happy with or without a man....Maybe being single now is a blessing in disgiuse......Enjoy it for a while, Figure out who you are and what you want. Do things that make YOU happy. Go dancing, get a pedicure, go to barnes and noble....whatever it is do that... Lots a fish in the sea, dont worry about that....More will come- take care of yourself first!
2007-11-18 16:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Spanky Mc Cranky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Diana, you said.........and wish I had someone to love, to make my life happier.
This is a key to your problem. When YOU are happy with yourself and comfortable by yourself then and only then are you ready to be with someone else.
If you get into a relationship before this happens then you will be dependent on the other person to provide you with the things you lack in yourself.
I have personally found Tony Robins to be very helpful in teaching How to be happy with yourself, to love yourself and be ready to share your life with others. He does a program called Personal Power II that I especially like, or the book Awaken the Giant Within (you can probably get this at the library)
Honestly, work on yourself and everything else will fall into place for you.
2007-11-19 00:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by susandorey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where so you live? Lets get togther! =)
2007-11-19 01:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋