Am I in the rong for being glad about a death of some one from my past ?
I have just found out that My Step-Father was killed by a Hit & Run Taxi driver 10yrs ago . I am glad & feel that if I knew who was driving I would buy them a pint , the man was a horrid man who tryed to have sex with his 13yr old step-daughter the night after he marred her mum . am I evil for thinking this way because I am that 13yr old :(
2007-11-18 15:48:06 · 12 answers · asked by bambimum123 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Those thoughts are normal, but you can never be at peace until you forgive him.
Don't worry, I'll find the driver and buy him that pint.... heck, I'll even make it a barrel!
2007-11-18 16:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your past. Have you had any cancelling or therapy for what you have been through? I have friend who was sexually abused as a kid and he was seeing therapist who he said helped him a lot.
I have been using an alternative therapy called Emotional Freedom Technique for anxiety and depression which has helped me a lot. I only have mild anxiety and depression now. It has really worked for me and I have been feeling a lot better since using EFT. It's very good at getting rid of all kinds of negative emotions and dealing with all kinds of issues quickly. It does sound crazy but does work. Might be something that can help you.
2007-11-18 23:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by xoɟ ʍous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, given what happened to you at the hands of this clearly sick and evil man I'd say you're just human.
He was the sick one to try to molest a 13 year old girl. He should have been locked up and the key thrown away.
2007-11-19 03:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO AND NOW YOU CAN BURY THE PAST AND MOVE ON.
EVIL HE WAS AND TWISTED. THUS HE ABUSED YOU. WE NEVER UNDERSTAND THESE PEOPLE. EACH HAS A DIFFERENT STORY. EACH A DIFFERENT DESIRE. QUITE BLAMING YOURSELF. YOU DID NOT DESERVE WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU. FOR 10 + YEARS YOU HAVE CARRIED THIS FEELING OF GUILT AND NOW IT IS OVER.
YES FEEL GLAD ABOUT IT. BUT AT THE SAME TIME PRAY FOR HIM BECAUSE HE WAS TWISTED AND DID NOT KNOW WHY HE DID THE THINGS HE DID.
2007-11-18 23:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Human with all that means. Who can blame you for the way you feel. You are not sick and your feelings are not evil.
2007-11-19 18:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not sick or evil, but if you cant stop thinking about this awful episode talk to someone.
2007-11-19 00:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by flint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not sick, its natural to feel this way after someone has tried to do a bad thing to you like that. i would feel the same myself, i probably would have tried to hurt him myself too.
2007-11-19 00:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he was sick and twisted for bothering you and trying
to have sex with you at age 13...
your feelings are normal.
2007-11-18 23:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by WiseGal 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this case, I don't think that you're sick. I think that you're just angry and probably feel that you finally have justice.
2007-11-18 23:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by bateman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you're merely human.
2007-11-18 23:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋