stop flirting with you without hurting his feelings? I like the guy, but I have no desire to be a home wrecker. But he flirts with me and it makes me uncomfortable cause if he wasn't married I'd consider dating him and hate having to constantly tell myself "no" because it is very flattering. How can I get him to stop cause it's driving me nuts!
2007-11-18 15:19:53 · 6 answers · asked by AessaMenevrah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell, go for it. Might just be a nice diversion for the both of you. Marriage is overrated anyway.
2007-11-18 17:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by E C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try something like look...I'm flattered that you are attracted to me but the simple truth is that you're married and I am not about to wreck someones marriage. I feel awful after some of our conversations because I wouldn't my husband to cheat on me if I were married...and even though I am attracted to you....I simly could not handle being the reason another womans man cheated on her...no matter how good looking they are or how much I'm attracted to them so please stop because it won't go any further and this kind of talk will have others think it's happening and ruin my reputation.
2007-11-18 16:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by just bored 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes,you do have to put a stop to this otherwise it may get out of hand.Simply say to him "Hey,thanks l think you are paying me a compliment,but you are attached and that how it should stay.You are a nice guy,but this has to stop.Ok."
Hopefully he will realise and get the message.
2007-11-18 15:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe something along the lines of, "I think you're very sweet, but I feel the nature of our relationship is slightly inappropriate keeping your wife in consideration."
As long as you don't directly attack or name him directly as the culprit (even though it IS him), he will be less defensive. Focus on the interactions or the relationship between you two.
2007-11-18 15:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by acrobatiques 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why bother being nice about it!? Thats ridiculous! Tell him to stop or ur gunna tell his wife!
2007-11-18 15:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask how his wife is;-} & say you'd like to meet her to talk.
2007-11-18 15:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Robert S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋