How can our society be adultery free?

Answer 1

The Promiscuous life style of today in West has gone so far away from the piousness that it is extremely difficult to bring people back to the time when they were devoted to their wives and families.

Unfortunately it is the effect of separation of State and Religion due to all the killings done in Europe in the name of Christianity. If Government didn't want to give religious education at least it could have made illegal to make laws contradicting the religious believes of people and could have made laws and punish the violators of laws that enforce religious values in society. Like for example many countries in Middle and South East Asia do not rent a room in a hotel or motel to a young couple without showing proof of marriage to stop the Promiscuous life style.

Unfortunately western states have left it on families to teach and control sex related behaviour of people. Consumption of alcohol is another worst kind of menace in any society that allows its use freely. This is the outcome of democracy in which majority can pass any law. If majority want liquor stores in every neighborhood, they can have if business interests bribe all city council and get favourable laws passed. This is happening in US cities, states and congress. People choose Democracry so they have to face all such results also. People love Democracy so much that they don't see any other alternative. If they amend in the constitution making passing laws unlawful that are against the religion believes of all religions and make alcohol, and free sexual behaviour unlawful. Without involvement of state laws it is not possible to control the sexual behaviours of people. Muslim states operates separate schools for boys and girls to keep them separate until they are matured enough until their marriage age.

I mean to say is that there are too many aspects of life and law making sytem in west intermingled that allow promiscuous behavior. This makes it extremely difficult to take people back to the old life style of religious societies thousands of years ago.

Muslims societies strongly believe in joint state and Religion
system of governments in which Law Makers can not make any law that is contrary to the teachings of Quran. That helps them to continue following the more or less similar life style that their forefathers followed throusand years ago. They continue following the moral teachings of Prophet Mohammad and have pretty good control on alcoholism and sex related crimes in their societies.

Fights between the people for minor things is more related to their hot tempers, tribal life, poverty etc. which is also the cause of the lack of education. Slowly some of these problems will also be controlled in future with the progress in economy and education.

I know many of you like to read word Islam written in any answer. I am Muslims and grew up in Muslim society. That is all I know and can you example of what I know. I also know that such problems do not exists in Muslim families in USA who even converted as Muslims ten to fifteen years ago and adapted the Islamic life style.

Islam has a solution for western social problems. But unfortunately westerners hate Islam and Muslims and have no interest in listening to them.

May God guide all of us to the right path for the sake of our children and their future.

Answer 2

Women forced into the workplace because of the rise in the cost of living has created a greater occasion for extracurricular activity. A man working along side a woman is common. If I have to deal with a woman I keep it professional. I never share personal information. There is a line you never want to cross and it starts by sharing personal information. One attractive woman whispered to me how concerned she was about me, in a very inviting way. I gave her my back and walked away fast. I am a married man. End of story. I don't care if it was rude. I did the right thing. The answer is to not allow yourself to get into situations that lead step by step to adultery. You know when a line is being crossed, when you are getting too close to someone. Back off. Adultery is wrong and there is no justification for it. Period. Run and flee from it.

Answer 3

Our society will be adultery free or at least minimal if the society has the law which governs that all men and women who have adultery will be punished hard by stone thrawing 100 times and they will be announced to the publuc.The persons who disobeyed the law will be ashamed and they do not want to do it again.The people who have not yet do the adulteries will be afraid and they do not want to do adulteries The law should be enforced so it will prevent them to do adultery..Adultery is hated by God so in the Qur'an it is not allowed and someone who did it will be punished. on the public area. so many people will witness it.

Answer 4

There is no adultery among the tribals living in the forests of Bastar district in India after a girl is married . This has been found by eminent sociologists and anthropologists who have spent decades among them.The young girls enjoy immense freedom, with no restrictions, till the time they marry.After their marriage, they remain fully loyal to their husbands and no incidents of adulatory has been observed.If we wish our society to be free of adultery, some in depth studies into the life pattern and behavior of these tribals should be carried out.

Answer 5

Elect men who would uphold Gods Law, we would all be suprised at how quickly the practice would cease. Only a few would have to die as an example. Do it in public for all to see, and fear. Do you have a picture in your mind now?

What a blessing it would be for individuals, and society. It is portrayed in movies as a fun and exciting thing, but rarely seen as the destructive behavior that it is, resulting in broken families. I'm sure many is the person that says, "If I could only undo that one thing".

This is concerning a rebellious son, but the principle still applies.
Deut 21:21 "Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death; so you shall remove the evil from your midst, and all Israel will hear of it and fear.

Answer 6

By changing the concept of sexuality, adultery, and cultural norms in our society. I don't think monogamy is natural for human beings, but serial monogamy may be (one person in one relationship at a time).

Answer 7

I dont think society could ever be adultery free. Its Somthing that would be great if it ever happend. but the reality is its never going to happen. Just Put It This Way If a Man is married and he just thinks about another woman in his mind, thats conciderd adultry. SO In this world i dont think it would ever happend.
Remember Jesus Loves You. Pray To Him and Accept Him as your Lord and Savior

Answer 8

We can adopt the Muslim tradition of murdering adulterers. Wouldn't that be lovely?
No. It can't be adultery free. I'm sorry to inform you of this, but as its put in Rob Reiner's classic "The Princess Bride" "True love...not a couple in a century has that chance, no matter what the storybooks say." That's pretty true. Most marriages are built on a temporary love, a fleeting thing that passes as quickly as it comes. Very rarely do people marry who are genuinely and permanently in love. So long as this persists, so long as people marry people they don't really love, people will always cheat. Sad sordid fact of the matter, I'm afraid.

Answer 9

The only thing to do is look at adultery from a different perspective and take a different approach.
There is no such thing as adultery in ie. Japan, it is normal for a husband to have sex with a different woman, especially during extended business trips. In Japan, it is ok to have sex with someone other than your partner as long as it's only about sex and you are not emotionally attached to that person, it is only considered betrayal if you fall in love with someone else.

Answer 10

Raise men to respect women; wives, girlfriends and the sanctity of marriage and intimate relationships. This "boys will be boys" garbage is the main reason we have so many problems in this society. Men need to be responsible for their actions. I am saying men because the numbers are stacked against men quite a bit compared to women who commit adultry.

Answer 11

Are you sure that we are supposed to? I mean where did that law come from? The bible? if so, what pray tell is a concubine? Seams convenient that the rules changed at some point to me.