How do your expectations change when you pay? What about when your date pays for both of you?
2007-11-18 14:00:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I care about her, I would gladly pay for everything. Allowing the women you love or care for to pay is shameful to me.
2007-11-18 14:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Joel J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I go on dates I prefer to pay for everything. Not because I have to but because I want to. And just cause I pay does'nt mean I expect anything afterwards it's just the right thing to do. If I like the girl yeah I hope somethings gonna happen between us but I'm not thinking about that when I pay
2007-11-18 14:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by nick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind paying for both on a date, and it wouldn't hurt me if the girl wanted to pay her way. It is, actually, pathetic if the girl pays for both... I wouldn't allow that to happen, personally.
2007-11-18 14:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, when first dating i'll pay for everything, but after a while, its best to start splitting things up.
2007-11-18 14:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by The Only Russ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't really mind if she is totally against men paying then that's grand she can go half but if she likes a man to pay then that's what will be done.
2007-11-18 14:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by ---- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay for everything and i have no expectations ---- i have had it happen and i truly dont like it --- i do prefer to pay for both
2007-11-18 14:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are never any expectations. However I prefer to pay. Thats the guys job call me old fassion.
2007-11-18 14:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like intelligent capable women who pay their own way.
2007-11-18 14:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but i prefer when they pay the whole thing, not because im cheap or money hungry but because it shows that they are considerate and generous.
2007-11-18 14:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i like men who pay, not because i'm cheap but because it's a nice gesture.
2007-11-18 14:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋