ok, my boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me about 1 month ago. A few days later he was already with another girl. im pretty sure that they were seeing eachother, or at least he had feelings for her while we were together. Anyways, i love him sooo much. i know what he did was really horrible and ive been doing fairly well actually, im over the worst. but what can i do to get his attention. He hasnt made any attempt to contact me in over 2 weeks. is time the only way of knowing if he will ever come back. He is in college, so he is in his prime confusion stage......... i know he has to love me still. we were soooo close. Do you think he is playing games with me because he knows il always be wrapped around his finger? how can i get him to see what he is missing? Guys out there, what caused you to break up a long relationship, even if the girl was great, and what made you want her back?
2007-11-18 12:44:30 · 1 answers · asked by brittknee08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From you, it would be that your purposeless, and that your to easily manipulated because you ASSUME that's love. So I see that he left you because you made being in a relationship, hard. Frankly because all you were was his little "*****" and just did what he told you, congratulations your a nice girl, so your getting treated the same way "Nice Guyz" get treated, which is your to hard to handle because your reasoning behind everything is "I love you" which is true, but a butch of bull that someone in the "figuring things out state" not the "prime confusion state" that's highschool, not college. Would be tired of because that's a high school way of loving. Learn to love yourself, don't expect someone to do it for you. Sorry to be offensive, but people treat the heart like its some happy Disney world were everything turns roses. If that's so, why do you feel this way? Painful huh? That's because you didn't fight for you, now you pay the price, love is more complicated then a romance movie. You need help figure this stuff out, I've got an e-mail, if you still think you've got it figured out, try that crap again with another guy, see how happy things turn out.....
On the other side of the coin, the truth of love dictates, he'll never forget you, you've scared him, but congratulations, he has no choice but to deny it.......
2007-11-19 03:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋