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I'm a guy too, 25.
Ok, i have a girlfriend shes the kind of girl your parents would like . she bakes very delicious cookies, she doesn't even glance at hot guys, and shes very beautiful but shes not that hot though she's sexy. she's kinda daddy's little girl and wears conservative clothes, she's kinda like a kid and my parents likes her a lot coz she's a good baker and she talks really sweet and she's average in bed and we've been together for 4 years... and my parents wants me to marry her, i'd love to but the thing is i met this girl on my friends party, she's so hot, so beautiful and mature, and shes a FORD model. when my friend ask me to meet her i can't even say i have a girlfriend. we started to go out and after 4months of cheating , she (FORD girl) told me she's starting to love me.
so who would i choose? my girlfriend who's kinda like a kid or this FORd model hot girl? i love both... but who would i choose?

ok.. the sweet girl makes me happy specially when she jokes, but i hate her when she's making me eat her cookies it's delicious but i'm tired of eating them. the ford girl is good in bed, she keeps telling me she loves me, but she doesn't have good jokes and i don't laugh much when im with her.

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my second question

Answer 1

You're kidding, right? I would love to have someone like your current girlfriend. Most guys would. Appreciate what you have.

Answer 2

Ford girl. Only because you asked... You will end up with neither, maybe. But the sweet girl doesn't seem to be your type. Sounds like a lackluster. Go for the Ford girl because you seem to want her way more than the other girl.

Keep the sweet girl as a friend only, or just get rid of her. Whatever works.

Also, since when did the parents opinion matter?

Honestly though, I'm more bias against the conservative girl then I am against hot model girls.

You're still 25, still young, marriage doesn't need to happen any time soon. Good luck, man.

EDIT: I just wanted to say that in your text, I felt no love for you to either girl. Instead I felt you holding onto one girl because you felt that she was perfect for the insecure guy...baking...not cheating on you... and average stereotypical boring wife from the 60s. And then this new girl like beautiful, you can brag about her to your friends even after you're separated from her.

If you still can't decide, spin a bottle. If you aren't happy with the decision of that spun bottle, then you know which one you really want.

Answer 3

dud if we knew the answer to that life would be easy!! lol
Just choose the one you would want to be with when the looks fade. I made the mistake of marrying the Hot one, then we had two kids and now she is fat and ugly, while the sweet not so hot girl is great now and not fat and ugly.
I wish I would have stayed with the sweet girl because the only thing I liked about the hot girl was that she was better looking then the other. Either way You should just stay away from marriage until you meet a girl you would die to keep.

Answer 4

There's no real indication that either one of them are for you. The main thing you said about the first girl is that she bakes well and your parents like her. What your parents like is not going to sustain you when you face hard times...you need to choose someone you're committed to working things out with (through thick and thin times.) And if ALL the model IS is pretty, that's not enough to sustain you when prettiness wears off (and it will) or when her flaws show through (and they will). Maybe 25 is too young for you to attempt a decision of this magnitude; some people are ready at 25, but for others 25 is far too soon...no shame in that. I could be wrong, but you don't strike me as ready yet, because when you really find the one you want, NOTHING anyone else says will matter, and you'll know exactly who she is and what she means to you. Trust me, you will see when the time is right. Then your folks may not see it in her, but they'll see it in you and they'll support that decision completely. Until then...

Answer 5

Get some new clothes for the sweet gf that you like. Dump the Ford model. Be with the girl who make you comfotable.

Answer 6

Go with the model.

In a few years, you'll get tired of the relationship, and you'll find another girl to cheat on your model girlfriend with. Then I think you should move in with the new girl. Or maybe, perhaps she'll end up cheating on you. Oh well. Who cares about her, as long as you get what you want, as long as you are having a "good time"

You obviously have no shame, nor remorse about completely destroying your current girlfriend's heart.You obviously have no concept of love, commitment, trust, or respect of yourself and others.

Far be it for me to suggest that you actually take responsibility for the pain and heartbreak that you will have caused. You are a cheater, and cheaters never learn.

Good luck,
~W.O.M.B.A.T.

Answer 7

Ok im not a guy and i know u wanted a guys oppinion but i just had to answer cause my boyfriend told me too he said thet if it was him hed probably pick the model because he wouldnt want someone thats like a kid. He said hed want a mature person. My b/f said thet u should think to urself if the girls were on opposite sides of the room which would u go to first? That is the person to pick. Plus just think u like the model enough to cheat on ur girlfriend of 4 years so that should tell u something.
Ok now im sayin somethin i agree with my b/f completely. And im keepin him away from models now.
Good Luck from the both of us.

Answer 8

Beauty is only skin deep. The Ford girl might be really hot, but (for me at least) that means nothing if you have nothing in common. I think you should stick with your old girlfriend because you know you are good together otherwise you wouldn't be together for 4 years. If you don't have feelings for your current girlfriend anymore you can dump her for the other chick.

Answer 9

You can't dream forever. Unless you make a REAL decision about this soon you may be without either. If you choose the sweet girl for safety you will grow to dislike her and possibly start abusing her mentally and or physically. I doubt if the hot one would take any BS from you. If either finds out about the other the decision may be made for you. Counseling can help you sort out your feelings.

Answer 10

If you marry the ford model she'll always be on shoots and she's probably on a huge diet. Even if you don't marry her there'll be many people that will. You're only submitting to a common fantasy of men. It's more likely the model would cheat on you eventually. The sweet girl seems like she has a genuine love for you and you wouldn't want to waste that would you?

Answer 11

There are different kinds of love, it isn't simply because you love someone that you marry them.
Obviously you don't love your girlfriend enough for that kind of commitment becuase you are cheating on her.
When you speak about the model, the only thing that you have to say is that she's hot. YOu didn't mention anything about her personality which makes me think that you are probably simply infatuated with her -- not necessarily in love with her enough to marry her.

Don't marry anyone just because your parents say you have to, and honestly (sorry if this is too blunt) you don't sound mature enough to marry anyone right now. Even if they make great cookies.