this guy that i was friends with (he liked me but i diddnt really like him) used to call me a lot like every day. Then he started calling another girl instead of me and when he did call me it seemed like he was trying to make me jealous talking about the other girl. So i got mad at him and stopped answering his calls its been about 2 or 3 months since we talked and he called about a week ago. Ive been thinking about him lately and i kind of want to call him back but its been a week and i dont know what to say to him? Should i call him back or is it too late? And what should i say to him if i do?
2007-11-18 12:40:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's still on this earth, it's never too late.......
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2007-11-18 12:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tanoota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The key to any good relationship is honestly and communication. If you will remember that the rest of your life, you will never get in trouble and most likely will have pretty good relationships.
The reason he is calling you is because he likes you. That is the only reason people spend their time calling others. It sounds like to me you never encouraged him to get closer to you. It seems like you made it difficult for him to get closer to you.
Tell him when he calls that "you have been thinking about him too." Guys need some encouragement to keep on pursuing you. Give him some.
Tell him a few nice things things about him. Don't say too much. Laugh at his jokes. Tell him that you like hearing from him. That may give him the courage to ask you out.
If you don't hear from him in a week or so, call him. Keep this in mind. He obviously likes pursuing you. Let him call you and pursue you. Don't take that joy away from him.
When he asks you to go and do something, be nice. Be friendly and say yes.
2007-11-18 12:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by roatanbruce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably with the other girl because he does not think that you are available. It is possible that if he knew you were interested he would still choose you.
But by now he may have figured out that you are a manipulative and destructive woman who is simply going to break his heart again. Let's face it, as soon as he comes back to you, you are going to dump him again. You are only doing it for vanity. You sort of quietly dumped him. Then when he lost interest in you, you did not feel like the center of attention.
So, you really don't want him. You simply want attention.
2007-11-18 14:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either wait untill he calls again, (thats what i would do.) But it will take some paitents. So if you don't want to you could always call him and tell him sorry for not answering all his calls, you could either tell the truth why (somthing i wouldnt do) or you could just change the subject, I dont know how you wouldnt not tell him why you didnt answer the phone unless you lied.
I hope this helped!
Good luck!
--opinion.
2007-11-18 12:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Justean♥ luv's ya! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you like someone you'll always remember it. It'll become a cell in your brain. But, usually when the male is giving lack of attention by the female the male moves on. When the girl finally talks or gives a good amount of attention to the male, the male starts to like you again. Right now that friend of yours probably is in that lack of attention mood. Call him once see what happenes. If he likes you again then the rest is up to you.
2007-11-18 12:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by David S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your friendship is important to you, then yeah go ahead and call him, as for an explanation of why you didn't answer his calls or call him right away, be honest with him. If he's a friend, he'll understand whatever you have to say.
2007-11-18 12:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him how he is doing and start a conversation, you do not have to say anything specific, if you like talking to him, you will find something to talk about!
2007-11-18 12:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Settelbanat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre just jealous, get over it. hard, i know, but its better than leading him on until he calls you a lot again only to fall into a vicious cycle. if you realize, hey, i actually do like this guy, call him back.
2007-11-18 12:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should call him. You should call and be like " Yeah, I missed talking to you" or something like that. Talk about going on a date or something and mabey he will get exited about you liking him and he will forget about the other chick.
2007-11-18 12:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dallas S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the person, better call him. I think it is not too late.
2007-11-18 13:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Gbinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you're jealous or your not.
If you're jealous, then maybe you do like him more than you think.
If your anoid that he's trying to make you jealous, then tell him that. He'll stop. Just be ready to accept that.
If you miss talking to him, call him.
2007-11-18 12:47:52 · answer #11 · answered by an_awsome_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋