my boyfriend is in iraq?

Question

my boyfriend left for iraq and i just found out that im going to be a mom and i dont no if i should tell him.and i realy worried that i will lose the beby because i am so young.i cant eat and i cant sleep.what should i do to get through this

im 18 years old

Answer 1

First, I want you to know that I will be praying for the safe return, of your bf. Secondly, if you are 18, you should carry the baby, to full term, without any problems. Just make sure to get to a good OBGYN.

Now, consider this, your bf. deserves to know about his child! The child will deserve the right to know its Dad! I am praying, with my heart, that you will tell him the truth and you both will treasure this new life.

You say you cannot eat nor, sleep. Is this because of your worry for your bf? Worried over how he will react to finding out about the baby? Worried that he may NOT come back? Then, I have a solution, PRAY! Place your bf., in the hands of God and ask God to protect him. Do the same with the news about the child. Ask God to go before you and prepare his heart for this news. Remember, God created this child's soul! Every child is a gift from God and I pray all will be well with your coming child.

God Bless You,
Gail

Answer 2

First off,tell him.It will be a reason for him to watch his back better.Especially if he was wanting a baby in the first place.Then,get yourself started with a good ob/gyn as soon as possible.They will monitor you and make the possibility of losing the baby less likely.My husband spent a year in Iraq,so I know how hard it is to determine what you tell them.We found openness and honesty to work best.My husband has three brothers as well.All three of them are there now for either their second or third tours.All three of them also have had marital problems since thier first ones.My husband and mine's marriage is stronger because we did not hide or reserve anything that might be of importance.It will make your relationship stronger with your boyfriend if you are open with him throughout his tour.He will learn he can trust you more,and that will make all the difference when he gets home.

Answer 3

hey, get his mom's or sister's e mail or facebook address and be in contact together with her. he won't be waiting to call each and all of the time. He would desire to be on a challenge, he would desire to be status shelter, his internet or the electrical powered energy customarily would have long previous out. He would desire to be dozing after pulling 24 hour accountability, something. So attempt to chill out between telephone calls. this is an concept: write him snail mail letters. it is going to bypass the time, and actual letters recommend lots accessible, they're some thing he can walk around with exterior and reread on a smoke destroy (if he smokes) or merely on an analogous time as playing the previous due night sunlight.

Answer 4

Sweetie, Stop, take a deep breath.. He is the Father of that child and he NEEDS and deserves to know. It will help give him strength to know what he if fighting for.

Next, You need to get to the doctor and keep going.. You MUST take care of this baby and everything you do, eat, think, or feel, affects you and this baby.

You need to calm down and begin to think about taking care of you and the baby.

Daddy can`t be there right now and that means you have to both Daddy and Momma. Your child needs you to be stable.. Daddy would want you to be doing the best thing for the child.

You need to tell your parents and his parents and remember, This child will help his parents hang on as well..

I am praying for you and yours. Be blessed..

† Lonestar Prayer Warrior-ess <>< †

Answer 5

Wow. I will pray for your boyfriend in IraQ. But yes tell him. Go to your doctor and talk about what you need to upkeep. Tell your boyfriend. He'll have something to look forward to when he gets home.

I'm 15 and pregnat and my baby's daddy left me after I got preg. I'm now 2 months preg and am very excited.

I hope your boyfriend is safe. Get help from family and friends and doctors. Good luck and god bless.
~Justine

Answer 6

Dfl...let him know! Speaking from experience, knowing someone will be at home for me, gave me the courage I needed. At that point in my life, I had no children, but will always remember the envy I felt to my brothers in arms who were new daddies.

I also want to pray for you - to ask our Lord to give you the peace and serenity you need, to participate in His miracle of new life. I also want to pray that this bit of news will draw you and his family even closer, and pray that all in your circle will gather around you, giving you the strength you need to make it through the days!

A mother to be...is a blessing indeed!

† Travelling Prayer Warrior †

Answer 7

Look to your family & friends for stregnth . You don't just lose baby's that easily . You will be fine . Be strong for your man too . He will need you . What he is doing is very comendable , but dangerous . He needs to not be worring about you . He needs to be totally able to function mentally & emotionally . He could loose his life if he is distracted .

Answer 8

You really need to tell him that he's going to be a daddy. Knowing that he will have a son/daughter to see when he gets back home will help him get through the misery of the war. God bless you, and please take good care of yourself and the life within you!!!

Answer 9

He deserves to know. He will be excited! Don't wait though. If you tell him in like 3 months, he'll be fighting in a battle thinking "I've been a father for 3 months and she didn't tell me?!" and then as his mind is taken off the battle... BOOM! he'll be on the ground. DON'T WAIT!!! TELL HIM!

Answer 10

Congrats on your baby....yes tell him.
Get around those that will be positive- for sure!


I will be praying for your family!

†Everyday Prayer Warrior†