What is going on with her?

Question

So I had been dating this girl until Tuesday when she told me that she only thinks of me as a friend. This was strange to me because we had spent the last 2 days hanging out with each other and we had kissed and cuddled and made out ect. I took this as odd because no one changed their mind like that. She began to ignore me and would run off with her friends when she got off the tour bus and would close me out the circle when her and other people would talk.

She later told me that she has family problems and that she doesn't want anybody to know about them. I told her that I'd help her get through it but she told me "I can't keep dating you and not have you involved....if we keep dating, you will get involved" She won't tell me what the problems are because she doesn't want anybody to know.

We had a bit of a feud yesterday and I told her that she shouldn't have lied to me. She tried to claim that I don't care about her and vise versa when I really do and have showed her in the past.

Her friend told me that she has a lot of family problems. She said doesn't even know her dad and her mom spends days with random guys at their house.

Answer 1

Really, unless you ballz up and tell her, "Hey Punk do you want to be lonely for the rest of your life? Do you want someone to geniunly love you? Are you tired of taking everything on by yourself? DO YOU WANT SOME F'IN HELP? Becuase you need it dumb-butt. Because the fact is you need someone in your life that well help get INVOLVED with those family problems. So shut the f up, accept me, and let me help you, because anything less then that, you loss me. Because I can give a crap about what you want, seriously, I don't care, I'm not here to give you that, I'm here to give you what you NEED, so take that or leave it." Just do it in your own style, I'm brutally honest, so you can't expect less then that from me ;-)