I told this guy I have been seeing for a while (and known for about 5 years nows) that I am interested in him. He tells me he has a girlfriend now and is madly in love with her.
He tells me there is nothing wrong with me and loves being my friend. I get mad that he didn't let know he was already atteached (that would have been the decent thing to do...) and knows fully well that I liked him. Then he tells me he is sorry and didn't know I was interested since I didn't say anything (even though I told him I wanted to be more than friends). He then tells me for now he is with someone and he likes hanging with me as friends.
NOW, I would think that since he is "madly in love" with this girl he wouldn't be telling me that "for now" he is with someone.
Whats this guys deal? Did he get tired of trying to get in my pants? There were LOADS of times where he wanted me to stay over at his house (yes we are of age), but I refused.
2007-11-18 10:56:36 · 3 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girlfriend doesn't matter. If he doesn't want to take you out, romance you and show you a good time before you show him your goodies, then you should find some other people to date and forget about wasting time being his "friend".
2007-11-18 11:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted" in your pants", still wants " in your pants" and will continue to want "in your pants".
What he doesn't want is a relationship( there may or may not be a girlfriend )
It's time to move on, you can do better....
2007-11-18 19:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like he said ..........He didnt know you were interested in him.
You left your run too late , he is with someone else now.
2007-11-18 19:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋