about this guy she was going to start to date, i was so happy, we are so close and tell each other everything but when i found out that she didnt tell me i got upset and she finally did today, anyways he is so gorgous( she knows how to pick um') but now my dad is jealous. My mom was suppose to marry my da when they found out my mom was pregnant at the age of 16 but she declinded and ran away. now they still talk and all, but he gets jealous when another guy is with my mom( which is normal). the problem is my mom invited me to see a movie with her and Mark but my dad suggested i shouldnt and that i should go to his house and stay the night and get to know my step-sister( whom after mom had me, the other woman carly left my dad to go to hawaii when she found out her grandmother is sick and she never came back.)
i dont want to hurt his feelings but says no, but i really want to get to know mark and hang out iwth my mom
2007-11-18 10:52:02 · 10 answers · asked by willflip4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dad is not the best choice to say no too though
2007-11-18 10:56:36 · update #1
don't get too messed up over the whole thing. if you live with your mom do what she tells you to do because you don't want her thinking you don't want to meet her BF.
But you should always know who your parents are dating. God forbid something happens to your mom when she's on a date and you need to know who she was with.
2007-11-18 11:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by pplXOXOppl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being thoroughly taken talents of. You have got to take a seat her down and inform her that if she needs you to maintain looking her kids she demands to to begin with pay you an hourly price, and moment if she will be later than she says to name and ASK you if that could be good enough. You have given her fairly a deal for many years and if she is not going to agree for your price, its time so that you can stroll away. Depending on wherein you reside the going price for a relied on sitter looking three children must be among $10-$20 an hour. You are practically an grownup and also you have got to quit letting this girl take talents of you. Also say no while you wish a break day, its summer season, your younger and must have a laugh oftentimes!!
2016-09-05 08:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a case of adults bringing children (yes you are still a child) into adult situations. Your mom shouldn't even tell you about guys she is dating unless she is VERY serious with them. You don't need to meet men that she dates. What is the point? They may date for a few months and then break up...leaving you missing the guy too! You need to tell BOTH of your parents that you are going to leave the adult "affairs" up to the adults and that you are not going to be put in the middle of it. It might be too late because it seems like your parents already tell you too many details. I hope for your sake that their issues don't ruin your future relationships.
2007-11-18 11:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by lifeisgood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad exactly that...you want to get to know your mom's boyfriend and this is the perfect opportunity. maybe suggest the next time that you and your dad can do something just the two of you or also with your step sister. You should be able to do what you want afterall, he is the adult and should be supporting you...not the other way around.
2007-11-18 10:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should try to avoid telling your dad any non-neccessary info about who your mom is dating because he will probably continue to be jealous no matter what. He probably still heart broken. Too bad you are in the middle of it. Try to do whatever will create the least amount of drama in your life.
2007-11-18 10:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jewel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, go to the movie & then get dropped off at your dad's house.
2007-11-18 10:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call...but I would go see Dad.. dad's hurting, needs your help.. plenty of time to get to know new guy later...
2007-11-18 10:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad that you want to know mark better, but that doesn't mean that you don't love him any more
2007-11-18 10:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you have to do and just say it flat out and say i would rather see mom and mark and then say maby another tiem
2007-11-18 10:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want to do. do your own thing if need be, you do not have to cater your time to everyone at once.
2007-11-18 10:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by studio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋