My husband is disabled. I am 34 yrs old and I am exhausted. Mentally and physically. Though I don't feel depressed. Just I know that I have to do everything. For better or for worse I still believe in it. There has to be some kind of help out there and I tell you I have looked, just none give me the answers and I am missing out on my so many things. It makes me guilty because he can't do them and its not fair for me too. I really take this to heart. I love him so much. Perhaps I smother him and thats why he is mean and says hurtful things. Often it feels like he takes advantage of me and throws a fit over things he can't control. It hurts all the way around.
2007-11-18 10:51:28 · 5 answers · asked by Believe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's time to tell him how you feel and to respect you. You're basically working and doing all that you can to help him through his disability, which is admiring about you. You don't need that to feel worthless/hurt. Do something about it and if it doesn't change seek a counselor.
2007-11-18 10:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fiesty K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably angry w/ himself,too? Sometimes people that are upset w/ themselves take their anger out on the one closest to them, which is you- You need for others to come in and help out, too- Good Luck, and God Bless you-
2007-11-18 11:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by zeezee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call your local social services center. They may be able to help you. Your husband may be depressed and need treatment.
2007-11-18 10:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are to be commended for what you are doing. Have you try to pray together and read the bible? Ask some of his friend to visit him meanwhile you can have some " ME TIME."
2007-11-18 10:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Star T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop loving him...........?
2007-11-18 10:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋