I know my dad has a girlfriend but he does not admit it?

Question

dont worry he's divorced. i recently found out he's going out with this rich lady who owns a big cleaning company. i kinda hate her though. what do i do about my dad? ive already told him that im suspicious and asked him about it but he still denies it.

im not mad about the fact that hes dating. i understand that.(my folks have been divorced for 3 years already. im used to it) its the fact that he wont admit it.

Answer 1

hi there alo M, well i don't know how old you are but i think that you should expect for your dad to keep on denying you about the girlfriend because of this... by the sounds of you & your opinion about his girlfriend, that you surely haven't given a chance yet to get to know her. for some reason. also your dad must love you an awful lot because he puts you first on his list & that's probably why he doesn't even want to go there about a girlfriend with you cuz he knows that no matter what that you won't like anyone he gets involved with & that's the reason he's been denying it to you. did you ever even think that maybe this rich lady has children too & that they think the same way u do about her, their mother, having a new boyfriend & that she keeps right on denying them when they ask her about your dad!!!! see, there's always 2 sides to a story! his & hers! sorry, but i think that you should give your dad a break about his love life. when he's absolutely sure that he's in love with someone he will introduce her to you i'm sure. he loves u very much & you should know that by now. i hope that this answer to your question helps you out & teaches you that you are not the only person who matters in this situation. your dad's a good man. so cut him some slack ok? just wait until you have a boyfriend that you really care or you're serious about & your dad, being the best there is out there asks you the same question that you've been asking him about or maybe this has already happened between you & your dad? ahhhh, good luck my dear. bb, nobrethequeen

Answer 2

As you said, your parents are divorced. I don't know the circumstances, but I'm sure everyone involved in a divorce goes through a big ordeal.

However, you do need to remember that your dad might want to fall in love again. He might be ready for it.

If he hasn't told you yet, it may be because it's not serious yet, and he doesn't want to involve you until he is sure it's the right thing to do. You never know, he might end up with someone that you really like if you give them a chance to proove themselves.

Answer 3

He is your father and has a life just like you have.
if he has a lady friend you should be happy.You have a bf and he makes you happy.Doesn't your
dad needs to be happy.Just because he has a lady friend,that don't mean he is series about her.
Child shouldn't Denies a divorced parent.happine.
but the parent should talk to the child and be honest with them.

Answer 4

I know it is very hard when parents split up. I have been there myself. It is a hard time, but we all need someone. Your Dad needs the time to date and to see what the relationship is about before he decides to bring you into it. I am sure he isn't trying to hide anything from you , just protect you because he loves you. You will always have one Mom and one Dad, but liking or loving someone else who may end up in your Dad's life or your Mom's for that matter,will not hurt you or take anything from either of your parents. As I said, I have been there. My two step-children love me and I love them so very much.It takes nothing from their Mom and I like her too. Because of her I have two more children to love and three wonderful grand-children I would not have had. We are extended family and very happy for the past 34 years. Speaking from my heart, just wait it out and things will work out for the best. Love your Dad and let him live his life. He will always love you and you will never be out of his life if you let yourself at least like the person he choses to be a part of his life. Please don't form opinions of hate for someone you do not even know, it will eat you up. Relax and enjoy your young life. Talk to you Dad, he will love it, take my word. As I got older I began to understand these things in my own life more and more. Think about it and I wish you much Happiness in your life. Stay close to your family.

Answer 5

I want say its none of your buisness cause hes your dad but he might be waiting 4 the right time to tell you he's probably tring to figure her out if she right for you as a rolemodle. and see if he loves her making sure shes not crazy.2nd you hating her its and natural instinct you'll get ova it but if you sur somthings wrong with her confront her on it maybe she can answer your suspentions.....but you can always do some private investigation

Answer 6

It could be that he just doesn't want to tell you about a girlfriend unless the relationship is serious or something. You'll just have to be patient and, if your dad decides to share the info with you, he will. Don't push him or make him angry about it, though. Sometimes parents need a little privacy, too. ;)

Answer 7

first: you should really try to stay out of his buisness, but you still have a right to know.
try talking to him again.
second: maybe hes only dening it cause he doesnt know how to tell you or is afraid of how you will react. give him some time. he'll come around.
third: its totally normal to not like this lady, you probaly feel like shes trying to take over your mom. When your dad tells you, meet this lady, maybe you will grow to like her. Dont judge a book by its cover.

Answer 8

I've gone thru a similar situation. Tell him that in families...ppl are supposed to be able to trust each other, and you dont think you can trust him if he continues to deny things that you kno to b tru. sit down with him and tell him u can handle it... and that he'll still b the same dad that you always loved. w/e happens next...dont let him pressure u into seeing her unless you wanna c her :)

Answer 9

He might not be telling you because it isn't serious yet. If he does decide to make it serious, he should start asking her to hang out with the both of you. Try and give her a realistic chance...she might really like your dad and make him happy. If after giving her a real try you still don't like her, mention it to your dad...but its ultimately his life and his decision.

Answer 10

hmm... bit of a dilemma you have here... bugger

well.. maybe your dad is denying it coz he's not sure how to tell you or is waiting for the right time to tell you.

and as for the you hating her thing, if she makes your dad happy then thats what matters

Good Luck :]